I heard the Bolt-Up bolts were made of cheese – they are and have big course threads on them that make them a night mare. you have to get them overtight imho to get them to stay in . I have complained to hope several times about this issue on my pro 2 SS and nothings changed , they do send me out new axels every time though !
as for deore skewar dropping out – you do realise overtightening a QR is as bad as too loose , can stretch the bar and worse still you can overcam it so it goes tight – then loosens off again when it gets over the max od of the cam and starts to fall down otherside ! – and while i dont see the need for bolt up – anyone that rides a fork with no lawyers lip tabs and disk brakes needs their head looking at !