It’s doing that as it’s the strongest one it can find, or some joker dug into the settings and gave it a higher priority.
To fix this press the wifi icon on the menu, Network Preferences. Then select Wi-Fi and press Advanced. This will give you a list of all the networks it will automatically join to, and their priority order. Find BTwithFON, press the minus button, and remove anything else you don’t like the look of too.
If that doesn’t solve it then you’ve installed “something” that is being “helpful”. Note that in general Macs don’t need anti-virus software, security toolbars, and so on. I was shocked that PC World forced Norton onto my inlaw’s iMac, didn’t even know that existed for the Mac.