We have friends who live in the Ladygrove estate and they like it there… we go to a play group at a school there which is nice.
There’s a new development going up to the west of didcot at the moment, may be worth looking there too? It’s perhaps a mile out. Though maybe two.
Wallingford always seems nice, but no train.
Lots of the small villages around are great (but I would say that as we live on one of them)!
Oh, and while the pool is sometimes chavvy, it’s been friendly every time I’ve been (maybe twice a month for the last eight months), and that’s turning up at splash and play time, or whatever they call it.
Before moving anywhere now I’d check the online police crime map for the area, just to see!