I'm just starting to see a girl with ME, she's explained a lot about it, but I wondered whether anyone had any advice?
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Anyone here dated somone with ME (chronic fatigue syndrome)?
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Posted 1 year ago #
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Yuppie flu...
Get used to making the tea...
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A friend of my wife suffers with it. She has the days were she can't do anything but other than that she is a normal person if that's what you're worrying about.
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nah, but I had suspect Post Viral Fatigue/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome for almost 6 months back in 2008/9.
What to expect? She will probably sleep a lot more than most people, and have less energy! Other than that, can't tell you a lot else... It can affect different people in different ways. Some people live almost completely normal lifestyles, some peoples lives are ruined by constant sleep and/or no energy ever! It doesn't affect all people the same way.
Oh, and many people recover from it...
Just be patient with her to be honest, and let her dictate the pace. Don't treat her like she's an invalid either, she's probably quite normal a lot of the time, just gets a bit tired a bit easily.
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Doesn't sound like you will get your hole much. Well not while she's awake.
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sound ideal "while you're lying down we may as well make the most of it and stop that crying!"
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Oh Christ.
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PM me.
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You guys are hilarious, really.
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Cynic - al I nearly spit my wine out!
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Well, her ME isn't a problem for me and doesn't change the way I feel. I liked her before I knew anything about it.
Anyway, it's a condition that I know very little about so I just figured I'd ask for some real life experiences.
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Good for you sir!
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druidh - Member
PM me.
Emailed you
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My missus had ME for about 5 yrs. Incredibly debilitating and indeed life changing (for good or bad depending on how one deals with it).
She finally "got rid" of it after going on a Lightning Process course - recommended by two ME suffering friends. Check out: Linky
Transformed her literally overnight (as it did with the other two women). And that was 2 years ago now. Since then she's back to working full time, being a mum and generally putting a whole lot more into life.
PM if you want any more details ...
PS Loddrik and anyone else who tries to be witty: I too used to wonder about the sincerity of ME sufferers and there may well be a few who "aren't unwell" - but seeing it first hand ain't pretty. ME can destroy lives. Grow up.
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OP - you have PM
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Is this the disease where there are no clinical examinations to confirm a diagnosis?
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druidh - Member
OP - you have PM
Thanks very much, just replied.
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Spacemonkey, if it is total sincerity you're after, better to ask on an ME forum than an Mtb forum perhaps...
Regardless of the medical validity of the condition, it will always be met with a degree of cynicism and derision I'm afraid. Better to make light of it...
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loddrik - Member
Spacemonkey, if it is total sincerity you're after, better to ask on an ME forum than an Mtb forum perhaps...
I was going to, but they didn't want to know when I asked them whether I should buy an Orange 5!
In all seriousness, you often get a more honest viewpoint outside of a specialist/special interest forum.
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Regardless of the medical validity of the condition, it will always be met with a degree of cynicism and derision I'm afraid. Better to make light of it...
The level of responses from some people over the last few days on topics such as redundancy, time off work because of stress, and now ME... Well it just stinks to be quite honest! Since when has "I'm alright thanks, **** you" been acceptable really?
I hope that in all cases ignorance does equal bliss, and those taking the piss out of those less fortunate really do never come to any ill themselves...
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Regardless of the medical validity of the condition, it will always be met with a degree of cynicism and derision I'm afraid.
Agreed (unfortunately).
Better to make light of it...
Easy (but ignorant and disrespectful) if you're distanced or uninvolved.
Shameful if you're not.
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Mboy, so what are your illnesses and afflictions so we can take the piss?
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Mboy, so what are your illnesses and afflictions so we can take the piss?
Illnesses... Hmmm... Well got to be mountain biking I'm afraid!
Afflictions... Well, spending too much time on this bloody forum of late it would seem!
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Aww c'mon, there must be something better than that...
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Since when has "I'm alright thanks, **** you" been acceptable really?
Thatcher.
spacemonkey - as a current (what's the word?) sufferer? of ME/CFS - that stuff about the Lightening Process is very interesting. I'm naturally skeptical and it all seems a bit cult like but I have heard good things. It seems to cost a lot of money.....
BTW I think my gf has found it pretty hard coping with me being ill - but that's a bit different cos we already lived together etc
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EDIT: Nowt to see here. As you were.
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What do you want to hear me say loddrik?
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Nothing too intellectually challenging; we don't want him hurting himself...
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Silence would be good
Right, bollox to this, I'm off to listen to Dr Karls podcast.
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spacemonkey - as a current (what's the word?) sufferer? of ME/CFS - that stuff about the Lightening Process is very interesting. I'm naturally skeptical and it all seems a bit cult like but I have heard good things. It seems to cost a lot of money.....
You have a right to be skeptical - that's to be expected. I was too, as was Mrs Spacemonkey. However, one of our (properly genuine) friends had had ME for 2-3 years and she went on it in early 08 on the recommendation of another friend who had suffered for a long time.
The transformation for all three is remarkable - and literally overnight. And I say that with absolute sincerity, e.g. working full time, running/gym, parenting, social life, energy, enthusiasm etc.
Seems to be a mix of self-coaching/hypnosis/NLP blended with other stuff.
I recommend calling a couple of practitioners local to you and just seeing what they have to say and how they come across. You might be pleasantly surprised ...
PM if you want more
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EDIT: Nowt to see here. As you were.
I much preferred your original post
What is it with people editing entire posts these days?
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Sometimes, speshly when dealing with the Hard of Thinking, it's best to keep schtum.
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Nuff said.
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A pal of mine has had it on and off for 10 years now, Rugby player, in the Police, constant chatterer and definitely not work shy or anything like that. At first he Just dissappeared off the radar one day, virtually never left his house for months or a year. He now seems to go thru good patches and bad. The trigger seems to be if he's doing too much or maybe under stress. With him it's almost like mental exhaustion, but it's not been diagnosed as that, so i guess the symtoms are very different. The latest trigger appeared to coincide with a relationship breakdown, but in the past we (his friends) saw a seasonal trend (going downhill around March, uphill mid summer). TBH, the seasonal trend is still there this time around, but we're putting it down to something else on this occasion. Part of the problem is he's a real go go type, so as soon as he gets better he tries to do it all again 110% and then relapses (which is probably more the trend we are seeing than anything seasonal).
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So is it considered a physical condition or a mental illness?
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