Sorry Grant but I'm struggling to understand how you are managing to keep your prospective new employer sweet. If you have been offered the job, then either accept it or dont (and pretty quickly.) I may have gotten the wrong end of the stick but your post was started a few days ago. If I had interviewed you and I was made to wait for your answer, I wouldn't be best pleased.
Be under no illusions. Working in a LSU is bloody tough. LSU Teachers and teaching assistants specialise in teaching appropriate behaviour, not english, maths, mechanics or woodwork. The activity is completely irrelevant. Building a positive relationship which helps young people to improve their self-esteem is the key. I have spent countless times planning really cool, interactive lessons only to discover that my kids went joy-riding the night before and were still in Police custody.
Being able to maintain a "safety bubble" is really important for staff. (I drink lots!) If you are coming into this profession hoping that you will win friends and change damaged young minds then forget it. (Watch out for youth worker types who want to change the world and often get too close to the kids – I've had to pick up the peices a number of times.) Messed up kids will only change when they want to and not because you are their friend. Remember this when you have been called a f**kin c*unt 5 times before the kids get out of the taxi.
Think long and hard if the LSU is in a city centre location. (Far more difficult to deal with than a rural location.)
Sorry….. I could go on. Its been a tough day. If you like dealing with the sons and daughters of alcoholics, drug addicts and thieves then good for you.
I have found that every single damaged kid I have worked with has an equally damaged parent. This can also be challenging to deal with.
Bloody hell, I've been in this job toooooo long.
If you fancy the job set yourself a time limit (say 2 years.) No ordinary person can do this type of job for longer without going completely potty.
Sorry for the rant but I've been in eduaction (Primary, secondary and now an LSU) for more than 15 years now. Every job I have interviewed for, has required an acceptance on the day.
You seem in a very fortunate position if they are prepared to wait around for your answer.
Simon