yes i know, dont listen to a load of forumites, seek proper medical advice etc etc
just after some general advice if theres anyone qualified enough to give it. my 16yr old lads becoming a bit of a nightmare with his health issues. started a few months ago with pains in his side, all the hallmarks of appendicitis, time and time again going to doctors and suggesting appendicitis, and docs fobbing him off. "come back if it gets any worse", "its gastroenteritis" etc etc. until finally he begged us to take him to hospital. burst appendix
surgeon said it was the worst hed seen as itd been left so long which has disgusted us.
anyways, he had a big scar in the usual place, and one of the stitches inside has refused to go and indeed 'turned round' inside him and a big spike started sticking out of his skin. 3 days ago he had another op to open him up again and snip the end off.
naturally, hes worrying about stuff now. always on about 'is this normal, is that normal' and getting quite anxious about health issues. hes just come into the room tonight and said is this heart rate normal. to me seems about 120bpm which is clearly on the high side. he says he feels anxious, as though the adrenalines rushing round his body, and angry with the world, even though he doesnt want to be.
hes suggesting taking painkillers to slow heart rate down, which ive told him isnt a good idea. id just like to hear opinions on just how serious this heart rate is. or is that normalish for a 16 yr old? ive told him to lay down and relax, breathe long and slow, but he says he cant shake it.
feel sorry for the lad, (hes had about 6 or 7 ops altogether so far for various issues) its one thing after another, and hes not having a normal teenhood really. left school started college and had to pack it in cos of his op, and hes just dossing around at home feeling pissed off. hes worrying us :-/
for the minute tho, its his heartbeat thats the worry.
any thoughts welcome.

