Ah yes, I remember the joys of the annual appraisal.
It sometimes was ok, but all I really was interested in was what the pay deal was. The rest was mostly bullshit, far removed from my actual performance. Sometimes it was very negative, sometimes very positive, but rarely accurate. A farce!
Throughout the 90’s recession, the “tuppence hapeny” company I worked for gave us little or nothing in the way of pay increases. They made dubious claims that they were paying above market rates. In fact they were taking advantage of an average figure for my function, not the factoring in our specialist skills which were in the top quartile. They were arrogant enough to think we’d buy their bullshit, but then as it was a recession……
My annual appraisals have mostly been an opportunity for my boss to replay a list of all the things he perceived I had done wrong throughout the year, but had failed to mention to me until that stage. In the end, I lost it with him. If these issues were worth recording, surely they were worth dealing with at the time!? The stupid man had no management skill whatsoever and reckoned he could pull rank on me, just because he was my boss! I totally lost respect for the guy and it got to the point where we’d get into a row. In the end, they needed me more than I needed them. They were getting a superb deal out of me. It was a pleasure to leave there and poach three of their other disgruntled employees. The new company paid me £3k a pop – a nice little earner! Did I feel guilty? NO!
My advice to anyone who feels routinely put down, is to find another job, but make it very clear why you left some months after settling into your new job.
Don’t leave it for the 7 years that i did and where you become bitter and twisted.
I have declined “exit” interviews a couple of times since then. I am so full of contempt for the “let’s find out what we could do better” meeting just before you exit the building! Like they didn’t already know!
If you can start up your own business and have enough contacts and customers, this is the only way to go. It’s a tough world, but better than being dangled by a thread, by a bully employer who uses the perpetually present veiled threat of dropkicking you out the door with only a moment’s notice.