Well said Cougar, I’d started getting a bit that way myself, one or two each night leading to more, its unbelievable how easy it is to fall into it! Luckily I’ve realised and managed to sort it before it gets serious!

I would seriously cancel the ivf, as its a waste of time and money for all concerned, your wife is a drunk, just like the ones you see on the street, just she can afford to buy and hide better quality stuff.

She need s treatment for her addiction fast before she looses her driving licence, her job, and you.

Sorry to be so blunt but thats life, seen it before with patients i worked with and freinds.