Brick – I quoted the actual time (bar delays) from Portsmouth Harbour to London Waterloo with no changes.
Did it loads during a project at St Pancras – took nearly as long to get from Waterloo to St P!
I seriously wouldn’t look to work in London – yes the rates might be slightly better BUT you will lose any benefits of that in travel costs, times, fuel, etc.
TBH – you are not going to find what you are asking for here. Not IMHO, especially after being spoilt by where you are now.
IF it was me I’d move the parents to Banff – I really would. Far less upheaval for all concerned.
Parents get to live in somewhere lovely with you guys.
OR you, husband and kids are living somewhere you don’t know.
Making new friends.
Finding new work, new colleagues, etc.
Renting new property.
Etc
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Although I do know of a nice house to rent in Huddersfield for a ridiculously reasonable price.