Ditch A, forget B and C, and stop worrying about it. Simple. 8)

Is she fit?

I vote for her moving in with Woman A. And pics, lots of pics…..

Logic says get rid of all 3.

But it's not so easy to apply logic in your personal life, as I can confirm.

Option D – Airtight?

Coat on, already gone.

My money's on Moses being chap C

Another thread requiring a trip to Urban Dictionary 😕 . I'm still stunned after finding out what a blumpkin is.

FWIW I agree with TJ

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Option D – Airtight?

Coat on, already gone.

effiel tower option?

Punch As lights out and leave, move in with B and take all he's got before edjucating C in the ways of the world for one hot steamy weekend before jumping on a plane never to bee seen again.

Dont bother with any of them, move out asap and she sounds like she will find D soon enough once she gets rid of the misfit she is with now.

A clearly wont change
B wants to have his cake and eat …who on earth would move to another counrtry to be someones bit on the side and expect a happy ending?
C- 32yr old virgin … it would be cruel to make jokes but how do you get to that age without getting laid?

it'll be the only screaming you hear during that sojourn…

Moses – your Chap C

Crime solved, Professor Plum was dogging Miss Scarlet in the Library….

Option A: If she doesn’t think the relationship is worth saving (via counselling or whatever) she should ditch him.

Option B: Is married. Unless she wants to be a morally questionable trollop, she should ditch him. End of. Even from a more pragmatic point of view, if he’s cheating on his wife with her, he’s probably got other totty all over the shop. Even if he left his wife for her, he’ll probably cheat on her once he gets bored.

Option C: She doesn’t fancy him, and moving in with him would be unfair on him, and basically prostituting herself. OK, maybe not that unfair on him, if he’s OK knowing that she’s imagining that she’s elsewhere. If she’s cheated on her long-term bloke with a married man, I doubt that starting a relationship with a bloke she doesn’t fancy is likely to be a long and faithful one.

In short, she should WTFU, stop sleeping around behind her bloke’s back, particularly with married men – if she’s unhappy with the relationship, she should end it, for both their sakes. She sounds like she needs some time being single to figure out what she actually wants from life, instead of basing her emotional and financial wellbeing around a bunch of unsuitable men.

Some women are like monkeys. They won't let go of one branch until they've got hold of the next. They would be better off without any bloke for a long period, but only feel they have worth as a mans accessory.

OP has a strange view, she has no friends because she was part of a couple which makes me feel that moses is Girl G.

she sounds like a right goer. C would have the introduction of his life to sex. Go for it moses.

"he's shy, naive and a virgin at 32"

bloody programmers, all the same.

I'd advise her to take a break and then find 'D'.

She’s cheated on her partner of over ten years…with a married man. Given that you describe the affair as ‘intensive’ and that she’s considering moving to his country to be his bit on the side on a more fulltime basis (possibly with the view of hoping he’ll leave his wife), it doesn’t sound like it was a one-off or a mistake she regrets. I’d hardly describe her morals as ‘fine’.

Ditch A and be single for a while until she knows what she wants. If that means they have to sell the flat and A gets jumped on by his creditors, too bad, her equity should be secure. Simples.