@oldgit, your questions and my probably not 100% correct thoughts …
Disc rims lighter?
I was going to say yes/probably. I recently built up some wheels using DT Swiss TK540 rims. I just checked and they have the same quoted weight for the disc and rim brake versions.
If yes does that include the disc and hardware i.e the breaking surface now absent?
The weight of discs, calipers, pads, levers, cables or hydraulic reservoir & hoses is greater than the kit needed for rim brakes, so definitely not lighter.
Radial spoking a no no with discs?
I don’t know for sure. I did have an MTB front wheel (Fulcrum) that was radially spoked on the drive side and 3-cross on the disc brake side. I guess that suggests discs and radial spokes are not ideal.
Overheating on Alpine descents sorted?
Probably, but in the past I’ve heard that excessive heat in a hydraulic system can heat up the brake fluid and detrimentally affect braking. Still an issue?