Modern is something you can go into a showroom and buy.
Compare Renault’s engines used in Berlingo sized vehicles (I have the figures to hand):
1.2 petrol turbo. 115bhp, 190Nm from 2000 to 4000, peak power at 4500rpm and still over 110bhp at 6000rpm.
1.5 diesel variable geometry turbo, 110bhp, 240Nm at 1750rpm, peak power at 4000rpm declining rapidly thereafter.
The diesel is fitted with a six speed gearbox to compensate for the narrower power band yet you claim you need to change gear less with a diesel.
Edit to add fuel consumption: mixte cycle petrol 5.1l/100 diesel 4.0l/100km. Given the higher cost of the vehichle and higher servicing costs you have to do a lot of km to benefit from the fuel saving.