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  • personal tragedy – Its my turn now
  • BoardinBob
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    Very saddened to hear this. Thoughts are with you TJ

    aide
    Full Member

    Really sorry to hear that TJ, deepest sympathies, wish I was better with words

    chakaping
    Free Member

    Sorry for your loss.

    big_n_daft
    Free Member

    Really sad to hear this, glad you managed to make the most of your time together. Such a shame for her life to be cut short just as you had so many plans for your retirement together

    swavis
    Full Member

    So sorry to read this TJ. My condolences to you

    RustySpanner
    Full Member

    So sorry man.

    It was obvious from the way you’ve always spoken about her that you had a remarkable relationship.

    Please look after yourself.

    Love,
    Pete.

    gecko76
    Full Member

    So sorry TJ.

    budgierider67
    Full Member

    So sorry & saddened to hear this. My condolences TJ. Take care of yourself.

    Burchy1
    Free Member

    Sorry for your loss TJ.

    I met you both once a long long time ago on a Sharki’s tour of the Quantocks. You guys were on the tandem and i remember thinking she was nuts to be a stoker on that, but it was obvious that you were the same type of nuts so it all worked perfectly.

    ahsat
    Full Member

    Really sorry to hear this; and well done for all the support and love you’ve given her over the last few weeks so she could live her last days on her terms. Look after yourself now.

    Tom-B
    Free Member

    Ah so sorry to read this TJ.

    I’ve seen loads of your posts about the adventures you’ve done together and thought that you must’ve had a fantastic lifestyle and relationship. Not sure what else to say really….if you ever end up in Cheshire there’s an open door for you.

    Harry_the_Spider
    Full Member

    Sat here blinking stunned at the screen.

    So sorry to hear of your loss.

    Take care Fella.

    chipps
    Full Member

    So sorry to hear this TJ. Every time I move our tandem out the way (again), I remember a great weekend spent with the pair of you in the Dales. All the best from me and B.

    5plusn8
    Free Member

    Much love TJ, sorry to hear that and so sorry for your loss.

    alanf
    Free Member

    As horrible and painful as it must seem at the moment, at least you know those last weeks were spent on Mrs TJs terms, with the important people around to help. My condolences.

    nbt
    Full Member

    Oh buddy, I’m so sorry to hear this. Big hugs. I’m so glad you got to spend that time together

    whitestone
    Free Member

    Just shit.

    I met yourself and Julie just once: in the middle of Fisherfield when you were handing out sweets to those smelly individuals partaking in the HT550. Thankyou.

    Take care and try and remember the good times of which I’m sure there were many over that 42 years.

    FB-ATB
    Full Member

    So sorry this has happened.

    Neil

    hamishthecat
    Free Member

    I’m so very sorry to hear this TJ – thoughts are with you.

    Marcus

    winston2005
    Full Member

    So very sorry to hear of this news TJ.

    Hope you can take some comfort that you where able to take care of Julie in the manner she asked for.
    As others have mentioned I have never met you, but I always enjoy reading your posts and your opinions.

    Deepest Condolences
    Andrew

    convert
    Full Member

    Oh man – so so sorry to read that.

    Well done to you, family and friends for making her last days go as she wished.

    Look after yourself.

    bazhall
    Free Member

    I’m so sorry to hear this TJ, my thoughts are with you and your family.

    mogrim
    Full Member

    Sorry to hear this TJ, cancer is indeed a bitch. Take care of yourself.

    jimdubleyou
    Full Member

    Condolences to you TJ. Sounds like you did you best to make her final days as she’d want them to be.

    grum
    Free Member

    Everything I try to write sounds lame, but all the best from me to you and yours TJ, I can’t imagine how hard this must be. x

    bearnecessities
    Free Member

    So very sorry to read this, sweetly-written as it is.

    Not sure what else to say. All the best to you.

    Richard

    Greybeard
    Free Member

    I’m very sad to hear that, TJ. It would be a terrible loss at any time, but I know how you were both looking forward to enjoying your retirement together. I’m glad you were able to help her go peacefully.

    cheburashka
    Free Member

    Really sorry to hear that. Please take care of yourself.

    Spin
    Free Member

    Really sorry to hear that TJ, my thoughts are with you.

    retro83
    Free Member

    Sorry to hear that, condolences.

    Clover
    Full Member

    I’m so so sad to hear this. It was great meeting you both at the tandem weekend in the Dales a few years ago and I can hardly process this news. I was sure we’d have another fun weekend together with the crazy bikes in all our futures. My heart goes out to you.
    Beate

    boblo
    Free Member

    Aw that’s just shite TJ. I know they’re just platitudes, but all the best to you and yours. Tough times I’m sure.

    kilo
    Full Member

    Sorry for your loss TJ.

    towzer
    Full Member

    Thoughts are with you TJ

    thegeneralist
    Free Member

    So sorry to hear that. I was so inspired by your plans and thoughts for the future. Gutted that you are now having to do the next bit alone.
    Hope those 42 were as good as they looked from here.

    Xxx

    jimmy
    Full Member

    Been following things on Facebook, TJ. Tis rubbish news and you have my deepest condolences.

    You have, however, handled it amazingly well from what I’ve seen and she had the best few weeks that could be hoped for in the circumstances.

    Take care of yourself.

    Coyote
    Free Member

    Sorry for your loss buddy.

    Rona
    Full Member

    I’m so terribly sorry to hear this. I’ll be thinking about you and wishing you strength.

    reluctantjumper
    Full Member

    Condolences TJ, hate reading threads like this. But seeing that you both had 42 years together and that you both and your friends strived to make the ending as good as you all could are things you should be rightly proud of.

    dropoff
    Full Member

    Very sorry to hear this, wish I could say something more meaningful.

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