Late to this but have read through most of the arguments and can’t help having sympathy with both sides.
Personally I managed to bring up kids without exposing them to the Golden Arches and the three eldest still avoid it to this day, the fourth however would be all over binners like a bad rash, so my choice is wether I’m happy to enforce my beliefs by making her not hang out with her friend who happens to have a parent with a less than enlightened attitude to food and kids.
I wouldn’t however lose that much sleep over it, with kids you can but show them a way, if they follow all well and good if they choose not to, then san ferry anne, you did your best.
Funny last night a good mate was teaching his kid to be a fish murderer, and the little b’stard was pulling out Rudd by the dozen, we engaged in some friendly banter, I pointed out to the kid those little fish were some big fish’s children and how would he liked being dragged up into the sky by a space alien with a hook in his mouth and through the jest you could see he was thinking about it, – then went back to catch another dozen. The point is, they’ve got their own minds, you have to accept that and guide rather than force with your own values…