At the end of the day, you’re going to ride it, (hopefully for a looong time) it has to be the one you’re happy with.
if i was spending 2.5k on a frameset, id be wanting to use a builder who has decades of experience, and has built hundreds, if not thousands of them.
Someone who has only built a few dozen frames and can do custom if you want it? Nah, i think I’d swerve that.
I’m not pointing at any particular company here, it’s just my opinion, but there are some companies who seem to charge the earth for what really amounts to a stock frameset with a nice paint job.