You must choose to do whatever is best for you. **** the other guy, **** the bosses, **** all of them. Think of yourself and yourself only.
In December the company my wife works for was making redundancies and one particular person was in line to go, so my wife, thinking that she didn’t want the business (or the person in particular) would be left in the lurch, told them she was pregnant. So, instead of making two people redundant, they just made one redundant. Now, 2 months later they have made her redundant too. She could have kept quiet at the time (she wasn’t compelled to tell them at that point as she wasn’t ‘far gone’ enough) and the guy would have gone and she would have probably ensured her job was safe.
Still – they totally fecked up the process and even admitted on record that they couldn’t give her any new projects to work on as she is pregnant, so she has a redundancy package and we are considering claiming for discrimination too.