[Closed] Why do women wear make up ?

One of the girls in the office has recently plucked her eyebrows out and had them tattooed back on but higher up. I didn't know this was a thing you could have done.

I'm now finding it difficult to talk to her without staring in amazement at her forehead, very strange.

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Whether we admit it or not, self esteem is gained from the reactions/feedback of other humans.

My self-esteem jumped immeasurably the day I realised that what other people think of me affects me in no way whatsoever and I stopped worrying about it.

I purposely dress down for a lot of appointments at work specifically to avoid the typical bullshit questions I would get asked if I were wearing a suit. People treat me like a nobody, I act like a nobody and get my work done 3 times as quickly and go home earlier.

Other in the office dress 'to impress' - they use their clothing as a shield to hide the fact they are clueless and moan about working til 8pm every night

This.

I wear a polo shirt to work where a number of my peers have taken to wearing shirt and tie. I have my job because I'm good at it, not because I look like I'm good at it. If and when I get recognition it's on skill and merit, not because I'm pretty and toadying. (Which is just as well really)