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Have none of you ever heard of Jodie Kidd??


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:29 pm
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Have none of you ever heard of Jodie Kidd??

....go on?


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:30 pm
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I really can't see what there is to worry about.

Okay, I'll try to explain...

It is a perfectly natural part of life to have opinions on others and how they are behaving. Even I looked at the photos and felt that she was trying to create a reaction of some sort in the people who might look at the things she is selling. They are certainly 'different' images!

I can only speak for myself but, if I was behaving in a provocative way, like the images linked show (really tight clothes, chopped head, showing LOTS of cleavage etc etc) then I don't think I could moan about people mocking that.

However, to use terms above like 'is a transgender' as opposed to just 'woman' IS offensive to me. [b] It is objectifying and dismissing the entire identity of someone that you don't even know.[/b]

I'm absolutely sure people on here do not intend to cause offence. I know that, when I have been along to Pootles in the past, I have been welcomed with open arms and met some really lovely people. I don't think that people are laughing behind my back there. I hope not.

Being reminded that there are people with prejudices against people who are trans is hard - really hard. It might explain while the prevalence of suicidal ideation within the trans community isn't fractions of a percent like it is in the total adult population, it's 41%. Including last week someone I know...

So, please, feel free to mock behaviour, I do it all the time, but please don't dismiss her identity because when you do that, you also dismiss mine.

Anyway - I'm off to go wash my face because writing that made me cry

Rachel


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:33 pm
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If you put something like the seller has into the public domain - then its your lookout. I also can't help but wonder if the style of the pictures isn't deliberate, almost as if the seller is looking for a reaction

nice... almost like women who dress provocatively for a night out are asking to be sexually assaulted.....


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:33 pm
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What I meant to say was Jodie Marsh!


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:33 pm
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Jodie Kidd .......LOL


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:37 pm
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nice... almost like women who dress provocatively for a night out are asking to be sexually assaulted.....

Heh.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:37 pm
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- I'm off to go wash my face because writing that made me cry

WTFU... ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:38 pm
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Not far off Jodie Kidd tbh, she's a dog.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:38 pm
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You leave Milton Keynes out of this..... Nuke.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:39 pm
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I thought Jodie Kidd was a golfer before I found out she was a model...she'd turn up at the opening of an envelope. As for model, must model gloves or sommart.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:40 pm
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nice... almost like women who dress provocatively for a night out are asking to be sexually assaulted.....

Nice leap of logic.


 
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nice... almost like women who dress provocatively for a night out are asking to be sexually assaulted.....

Nice leap of logic.

I think the term 'almost like' in this context means "its absolutely nothing like saying ..... "


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:44 pm
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You leave Milton Keynes out of this..... Nuke.

Sorry Donk. I lived there a short while, but it probably has the 2nd largest concentration of weirdos per capita in England.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:44 pm
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Nice leap of logic.

based on some of the comments it's not really a leap though is it? more of a gentle stroll of logic


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:47 pm
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I sense another thread that will be closed before midnight. Just a guess.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:49 pm
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To many PC people on here.

Either MTFU or WTFU or TGTFU.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:50 pm
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Rachel,

I'm sorry it makes you feel like that. I do think there is a bit of a leap there between people identifying (either internally or verbally) someone as transgender and having an actual prejudice though. I could describe one friend to another as black to help identity them but I don't think that makes me racist.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:53 pm
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To many PC people on here.

Either MTFU or WTFU or TGTFU.

So I guess all those people who allthegear referred to who killed themselves should have just TGTFU too eh? Dickhead.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:54 pm
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Either MTFU or WTFU or TGTFU.

or just treat people with a little respect? no PC bollox, just common decency...that doesn't seem that common any more.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:54 pm
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no PC bollox, just common decency...

Exactly. Crying about 'PC gone mad' is the biggest cop-out going.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 10:56 pm
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This was meant to be a light hearted thread lol ๐Ÿ˜€


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 11:04 pm
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Yeah - sorry about that nickswolves - just a couple of comments were a little bit close to the bone.

Rachel


 
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I dont think you need to worry about that womans feelings Rachel,

That woman knows exactly whats shes doing.. getting labelled as whatever is exactly what she wants.. as well as generating watchers for her manky trainers.

When my missus puts clothes for sale on ebay, she doesn't take her bra off and model the clothes, she irons things, puts them on hangers and photgraphs them hanging on the door. The clothes sell perfectly OK, with no bleeding hearts commenting on how it's unfortunate she hasn't got fake tits so that she can display ebay clothes like normal people.

From the pictures you see of her tat for sale, theres a whole lot more issues going on that womans life and you dont need to be a cross-dressing Poirot to see that.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 11:15 pm
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Yeah - sorry about that nickswolves - just a couple of comments were a little bit close to the bone.

Rachel

ATG - are you a mod then?


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 11:21 pm
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To many PC people on here.

Either MTFU or WTFU or TGTFU.

This is a default singletrack resposte, albeit modified, its a joke.

No malice, no retraction, its light hearted.

If you think its a bad joke, then its your problem.

A lot of shi7 is talked on this mongboard but a racist/sexist or hater im not.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 11:30 pm
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KKF you need to use smileys, it's easy not to see humour in your post.


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 11:31 pm
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Perhaps I should have been more PC in my response, so as not to offend anyone. ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 11:32 pm
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Wonders if the coat pegs come free with the top #ontopic ๐Ÿ˜€


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 11:33 pm
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KKF you need to use smileys, it's easy not to see humour in your post.

No, there's no need, I expect some of his/her best friends are......


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 11:36 pm
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I wonder if anyone has done the 'CD test' to gauge the length of them..... ๐Ÿ˜†


 
Posted : 27/11/2012 11:40 pm
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based on some of the comments it's not really a leap though is it? more of a gentle stroll of logic

Thats an assumption with little evidence to back it up.

Just like its an assumption that the seller gives a sh1t what you or I think.


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 12:43 am
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I was quite happy to let this drop off the bottom of the page but seeing as it's reared it's head again..

gary_c are you ****ing kidding me..!?


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 12:53 am
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I've skipped 3 pages, but back to the Ebay Ad...

I think its terrible he's having to sell all his stuff off like this. Its bad enough them taking all his Tour wins off him, but seeing him like this is awful. I always said the drugs would upset his testosterone levels. Very sad.


 
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๐Ÿ˜ฏ

Is it raining where you are?


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 1:05 am
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Oh young gary, my dear deluded friend.. that's exactly what I am..

for sure ๐Ÿ˜†

you are clearly a wally


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 1:05 am
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lol, looks like its not just the ebayer thats od'd on testosterone.


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 1:07 am
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Anyways.

I'm gonna bid on a fanny pack...


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 1:09 am
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Leave the Power Bar one alone !

That ones mine ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 1:13 am
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I'm going to try and get another post in before the thread is locked......
geordiemick00 - whats a cd test?

I wonder if anyone has done the 'CD test' to gauge the length of them.....


 
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Wally ๐Ÿ˜€
Beautiful understatement.


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 1:14 am
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Yunki you're constantly rubbing people up the wrong way. Are you a troll or what? You seem to get off on it.


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 1:49 am
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of all the argumentative nonsense that goes on here.. you single ME out..!!? and in this context.. are YOU kidding me too..?


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 4:25 am
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of all the argumentative nonsense that goes on here.. you single ME out..!!? and in this context.. are YOU kidding me too..?

Well, you do seem to go extraordinarily far to find things to be quite excessively offended over on other peoples' behalves, simply to allow you to make a point. So yes, your sanctimonious attitude does make you stand out a fair bit.


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 6:27 am
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Blimey..... Only on STW folks........


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 8:23 am
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Another fine conciliatory post from Herr Zokes the Ban Ki-moon of STW ๐Ÿ˜†


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 8:26 am
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Glad to be of service ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 8:30 am
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You folks know that TJ moved to Yorkshire right?


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 8:39 am
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For defaulting to personal abuse this thread is now closed.


 
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