[Closed] RIP Tara Palmer Tomkinson

A Year older than me, that is crap. RIP.

Sad news. She was a real laugh!

Blimey.

I met the news with indifference.

She will be sadly missed

P-Jay - Member

I met the news with indifference

I assume she'll be missed by those around her, but otherwise....

how did she die?

Officially "unexplained" but the police say that about every death at home until there's a post mortem.

Apparently she had a brain tumour.

Not reported yet but I think had a brain tumour removed a few years ago??? ^^ edit

Famous for being famous but seemed pleasant enough. 45 is no age.

legend - Member

P-Jay - Member

I met the news with indifference

I assume she'll be missed by those around her, but otherwise....

That's the thing isn't it - we mourn famous people because we (not me in this case) mourn the passing of their on-screen / print persona. That's why we mourn TPT and not the Lady 2 streets over we never met.

I always disliked the whole "it girl" thing, it was all about aspiration, but how can you aspire to be born into wealthy society?

Anyway, I’m sure she was a nice person, I’m sure her friends and family are hurting, but me – indifference.

R.I.P. T.P.T. Although I’m sure rest isn’t something you’re unused to.

[quote=legend ] P-Jay - Member
I met the news with indifference
I assume she'll be missed by those around her, but otherwise....

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She liked a bit of charlie as I recall. Seems to be a trend with celeb deaths.

Aaaand... this thread turned ugly quickly.

I'm not asking for gushing sentiment, but maybe just a little decorum?

whenever I saw her on TV she was full of beans

Beans.
Yep, definitely full of, err, beans.

Short life but she managed to cram a lot of fun into it.

Not a name I'd heard in years. I thought she was older than that, rather I didn't think I was so much older than her.

jekkyl - Member
She liked a bit of charlie as I recall. Seems to be a trend with celeb deaths.

Despite his irritating habit of constantly fiddling with his cuffs.

Followed her for a few miles round the North Circular once. Her driving was downright scary, and we were a car or two behind.

She's had quite the life though. Light that burned twice as bright?

RIP

legend » P-Jay - Member
I met the news with indifference
I assume she'll be missed by those around her, but otherwise...

I spoke to her at a cash point a few years ago in south kensington, I told her it wasnt working and she swore, at the time I was struck that she was painfully thin,
she probably thought I was a fat git though

I was brought up to follow the maxim; "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all"

To be fair you haven't said anything nice about P-Jay.

Still remember her best, from her stint, on Channel 4's "Big Breakfast"

RIP

Crikey blimey.

I quite liked TPT, thought she had a wicked sense of humour and could out wit most with the blink of an eye.

Sad news that.

The last thing I saw her on was Would I lie To You, and she was clearly off her head.

It seldom seems to lead to a long life.

Unless you are Keith Richards

This is always a tricky one.

On the one hand someone has died, and only 45 and seemed quite pleasant, so that's sad.

On the other they were gifted wealth and decided to spend most of their life shoving class a drugs up their hooter.

I see both sides, but don't see people posting 'meh' is seeking attention.

decided to spend most of their life shoving class a drugs up their hooter.

Well we can pretty much ban all RIP threads for any musicians

Well we can pretty much ban all RIP threads for any musicians

If you ignore their body of work, then of course.

What I was getting at, albeit very badly, is that I think it's perfectly acceptable for someone to have their indifference noted for someone passing, if they don't feel they achieved more than the thousands of people who die every day.

On the other they were gifted wealth and decided to spend most of their life shoving class a drugs up their hooter.

It's a tricky one

Well which bit is "tricky" when deciding whether to show a modicum of respect when learning of the death of someone? Is it that she's taken drugs? Because most people have. Or is it that her dad is rich? Because what's the threshold of wealth, above which you're fair game for snarky, judgemental ****s?

Someone once accused her of taking Prince Williams virginity, her reply made me think she was ok.

" I am a drug addict not a ******* paedophile"

RIP

That's why we mourn TPT and not the Lady 2 streets over we never met.

Actually, when I hear about such things, I mourn the 2-streets-over person as well.

Death always hurts someone.

I am not sure she was ever particularly happy - very sad.

Pretty sure the BBC [i]were[/i] leading with a picture of Tamara Beckwith but have changed it now, wish I'd screen-grabbed it.

As someone who just turned 45 (which is probably the STW demographic) it's no age. RIP.

TPT once got in trouble years ago for flashing her two puppies at the two princes, and you never forget your first pair of boobies 😆 RIP TPT.

They are a lovely family she was fun and game for a laugh, such a shame.

I remember watching some late night chat/music show, probably for a band I liked that was on... Can't remember the show, it was set in a bar, or fake bar. Anyway, she's getting interviewed and baiting the crowd and getting into it and generally being a cool lady, then she mentioned as part of her wasted posh upbringing getting piano lessons and the host says "play for us"... And obviously everyone's expecting fur elise or something. Anyway, she sat down, knocked the lid up and just absolutely wailed into the dirtiest, wildest blues riff you can imagine. Proper blues. So that's what I thought about when I heard the news, unexpected awesomeness from someone that at the time people had written off as a joke.

Also, it took 8 armed police to arrest her one time at heathrow, that's scottish as ****.

Was that The Word?

To be fair you haven't said anything nice about P-Jay.

Might have been Charlie- something like that anyway, I definitely remember it being set in a pub though. But that could be bollocks.

Having a coke habit is never a good approach to enjoying a long life...

Not sure who P-Jay is,

http://singletrackworld.com/forum/profile/p-jay

Not sure if he does rapping, tho.

I doubt it was the tumour, TPTs was treated with drugs and she'd, mrs stainypants is just returning to work this week having had a similar tumour that didn;t respond to drugs surgically removed last September. Not the best of times but a no point did we have any concerns it was going to kill her.

She had other medical and addiction issues which are far more likely to have been the cause than a benign tumour that had cleared up.

RIP Tara Palmer Tomkinson

I'm as saddened by her death as I am by anyone I don't know's death. She was indeed landed gentry, privileged enough to have never worried about earning a crust and may well have imbibed more illicit substances up her nose in a month than most earn in a year - perhaps even a lifetime.

But any death at an age similar to my own is premature and she was a TV personality that I grew up with over the years and, as some here have said, she had more than a bit of joie de vivre and hedonism... live fast, die young perhaps?

(I'm curious to note that her death has not, as yet, been mentioned on Ch4 7pm news.)

Live fast, die middle-aged.

I always found her acutely annoying, but, in fairness, she probably had a LOT more fun than me of an average Saturday night.

Fair Play, TPT. I salute you and your hedonistic example.

She was a whole lot more fun than current crop of "celebrities". I too was surprised she was only 45.

Strikes me she was one of those at the start of this celebrity status though not actually good at anything, except getting noticed, lark. If she's looking down she's probably happy that more attention is being given to her. But, obviously she's not, so er.

I remember watching some late night chat/music show, probably for a band I liked that was on... Can't remember the show, it was set in a bar, or fake bar. Anyway, she's getting interviewed and baiting the crowd and getting into it and generally being a cool lady, then she mentioned as part of her wasted posh upbringing getting piano lessons and the host says "play for us"... And obviously everyone's expecting fur elise or something. Anyway, she sat down, knocked the lid up and just absolutely wailed into the dirtiest, wildest blues riff you can imagine. Proper blues. So that's what I thought about when I heard the news, unexpected awesomeness from someone that at the time people had written off as a joke.

Also, it took 8 armed police to arrest her one time at heathrow, that's scottish as ****.

Genuine 😀 and 😆

 RIP TPT.

I'm sure Aretha Franklin has already done that one.

Live fast, die middle-aged.

This really although how the Rolling Stones are stil alive I don't know.

RIP to her, a bit nuts but fun and never really bothered anyone as far as I know.

TPT used to live over the road from where my missus worked in the early '00s. Apparently she was quite an entertaining neighbour and not a bad sort. She once left [url= ]this hat[/url] with her for the milliner to collect. When she moved out it took several vans to shift all her clothes, the removals guys were just grabbing armfuls of dresses and chucking them into the back for hours and hours.

45 is too young, RIP.

I still have absolutely no idea who she was....

^ max STW points

this thread should have been entitled "tara Tara"

(or entitled ta-ra entitled Tara)

erm. that's it.

You wanna get access to that "internet" thing footflaps. You can find out all sorts of things on there.

look at me, look at me, look at me, I'm too cool to know who somebody mildly famous is.

I have to admit to finding her a bit irritating but then she did come across as being a genuinely nice person and I'm sure she was much loved by those who knew her. Was younger than me 😯

I'm usually first to wade in on a healthy spot of toff bashing but there was something likeable about her..

I guess tales like Northwind's illustrate that she maybe had the attitude to be one of the gang

Toffs are a bit like spiders - most people's insincts scream contempt and revulsion, but Tara didn't seem to have quite such a strong effect

I still have absolutely no idea who she was....

^ max STW points

Perfect. 😆

Very sad – but reminded me of this.

Back in the late 1990s she was very well known as the unattainable ‘posh totty’ in FHM, Esquire etc.

In Dec 2001 (after 9/11) there was a prolonged battle at the 'Tora Bora' cave complex in Afghanistan (Trying to capture UBL).

The American forces called the complex ‘The Caves of Death’.

The British referred to them as ‘Tora Bora Tomkinson’.

yunki - Member

Toffs are a bit like spiders - most people's insincts scream contempt and revulsion, but Tara didn't seem to have quite such a strong effect

I remember getting on a london night bus- probably from camden or kings x- and it was about 80% full of random late night scumbags, and 20% full of these old posh boys in djs and cummerbunds and that who'd been to some reception (and all still immaculate, not a bow tie untied) One of them genuinely had a monacle, and most of them looked like Timothy Spall. One said something like "Isn't this mahvellous, rubbing shoulders with the oi polloi!" It was so weird, you'd think it was a comedy sketch. And they were bloody [i]brilliant[/i]- chatting up the ladies, handing around hipflasks, singing incomprehensible drinking songs and telling stories, absolute life and soul. 2 of them had a pretty good fight. Then they all got off at my stop and we ended up getting greasy deathburgers from the place at victoria bus station. You'd not have been surprised if they'd invited the whole bus back to theirs for brandy and snuff.

Basically there's different sorts of class. And these guys had [i]class[/i]. Not the sort of background or personality that makes you think you're better than everyone else, just the sort that makes you feel like you can do things. Confidence not arrogance. And I think she was probably like that too.

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This really although how the Rolling Stones are stil alive I don't know.

The same way that there are plenty of people who can eat all day long and not put on weight and why there are life long smokers who die at a ripe old age of something other than cancer.

Everyone's body reacts differently to the stuff we put in it and we don't know how we're going to react before we do. The more risks you pull though the more likely you are to find out something negative.

This really although how the Rolling Stones are stil alive I don't know.

I must've missed some news about Brian Jones' premature interment.

Not sure who P-Jay is, or why I could possibly have any reason to say anything about whoever the hell they are.
I assume some sort of rap artist?
I can't be arsed to waste my time googling them.

Used to play in a band with Johnny X.

It's funny that when Carrie Fisher, with a history of drug use/abuse, dies young then she was a troubled soul

When TPT, with a history of drug use/abuse, dies young then she's a waste of space over privileged toff....

Mate, Princess Leia vs I'm a Celebrity. You know that only has one outcome.... 🙂

It was said on page 1, but TPT was the first person I heard being described as "famous for being famous".

This really although how the Rolling Stones are stil alive I don't know.

Saw the Stones concert last year. Mick Jagger was bouncing up and down on stage for over 2 hours. I was knackered just watching him, and he's a good bit older than me!

BoardinBob - Member

It's funny that when Carrie Fisher, with a history of drug use/abuse, dies young then she was a troubled soul

When TPT, with a history of drug use/abuse, dies young then she's a waste of space over privileged toff....

You obviously base that conclusion on an assumption and without bothering to read the thread.

If you had actually bothered to read the thread you would have seen that there isn't one single comment suggesting that she was "a waste of space".

Here are some of the comments which you didn't bother to read :

Sad news. She was a real laugh!

Famous for being famous but seemed pleasant enough.

I’m sure she was a nice person, I’m sure her friends and family are hurting

Short life but she managed to cram a lot of fun into it.

She's had quite the life though. Light that burned twice as bright?

I quite liked TPT, thought she had a wicked sense of humour and could out wit most with the blink of an eye.

Someone once accused her of taking Prince Williams virginity, her reply made me think she was ok.

" I am a drug addict not a ******* paedophile"

They are a lovely family she was fun and game for a laugh, such a shame.

So that's what I thought about when I heard the news, unexpected awesomeness from someone that at the time people had written off as a joke.

Fair Play, TPT. I salute you and your hedonistic example.

I'm usually first to wade in on a healthy spot of toff bashing but there was something likeable about her..

I suspect your assumption that Tara Palmer Tomkinson needed to be defended is based on an automatic "defend all toffs" knee-jerk reaction.

Cant believe you just went to so much effort 😆

Why would it be such an effort moving a mouse about?* I can't believe that some people do it for a living!

Actually I decided to bother for two reasons, firstly because I was slightly perplexed and thought that I might have missed some comments denouncing her as a waste of space. And secondly I get mildly irritated by people making assumptions based on their own prejudices, I don't like knee-jerk reactions - I believe people should "think".

EDIT : * Or did you mean the effort of reading the thread?

BoardinBob

It's funny that when Carrie Fisher, with a history of drug use/abuse, dies young then she was a troubled soul

When TPT, with a history of drug use/abuse, dies young then she's a waste of space over privileged toff....

Well let's compare their achievements. One played a leading character in one of the biggest film franchises of all time...in fact "film franchise" doesn't really cut it. Global cultural phenomenon is probably more accurate. And the other....what did she do again?

[quote=ernie_lynch ]Why would it be such an effort moving a mouse about?* I can't believe that some people do it for a living!
Actually I decided to bother for two reasons, firstly because I was slightly perplexed and thought that I might have missed some comments denouncing her as a waste of space. And secondly I get mildly irritated by people making assumptions based on their own prejudices, I don't like knee-jerk reactions - I believe people should "think".
EDIT : * Or did you mean the effort of reading the thread?

Did I actually address the comment at anyone on here? Oh were you just so keen to demonstrate your perma-rage?

Yes, it was a bad attempt to "manufacture" an argument even by Ernie's normal standards.

TPT sememd to exhibit all the characteristics of someone who was far from happy and actually quite lonely. Quie a sad persona especially more recently.

Did I actually address the comment at anyone on here? Oh were you just so keen to demonstrate your perma-rage?

So it took you 2 hours to remember that this comment by you wasn't addressed to anyone on here! 😆

[i]"When TPT, with a history of drug use/abuse, dies young then she's a waste of space over privileged toff...."[/i]

And yes of course it wasn't 😉

perma-rage

You are flattering yourself if you think that a silly comment by someone who's presumably too lazy to read a thread properly results in that sort of reaction. Post something which is clearly untrue and expect a fair chance that someone will point out that it's nonsense 🙂

Did I actually address the comment at anyone on here? Oh were you just so keen to demonstrate your perma-rage?

So it took you 2 hours to remember that this comment by you wasn't addressed to anyone on here! 😆

[i]"It's funny that when Carrie Fisher, with a history of drug use/abuse, dies young then she was a troubled soul

When TPT, with a history of drug use/abuse, dies young then she's a waste of space over privileged toff...."[/i]

And yes of course it wasn't 😉

perma-rage

You are flattering yourself if you think that a silly comment by someone who's presumably too lazy to read a thread properly results in rage. Post something which is clearly untrue and expect a fair chance that someone will point out that it's nonsense 🙂