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[Closed] Mrs G passed away last night in her sleep

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So sorry. Doesn't seem that one can ever be ready for it regardless of if its expected or not.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 3:21 pm
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Awful news, very sorry to hear it. Well done on the GoFundMe page Spawn.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 3:26 pm
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So sorry for your loss, I remember reading your other thread...


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 3:28 pm
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Sorry to hear your news Gnusmas, I lost my wife about 3 months ago so I can understand some of your pain.  If you can, try and get a couple of people you trust absolutely around you.  Do the bare minimum you have to do in these first few days.  Get the guys you trust to do some of the shitty stuff that you can delegate.

Take time for yourself and for your kids.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 3:30 pm
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Sad news fella, I think we all had hopes that things would get better for you and Mrs G. Glad you managed to make some memories to last you through this time and beyond. I cannot imagine how to break the news to your children but you have proven to be such a special and capable father to them at least they will feel secure in the knowledge that you will be there for them.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 3:38 pm
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I am so sorry to hear that.  I hope you find a way through this.  Wishing you all the best.  Take care.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 3:47 pm
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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Take good care of yourself and your kids.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:01 pm
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Very sad news. Sorry for your loss. Take care.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:04 pm
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Donated, take care


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:06 pm
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My deepest condolences, such sad news 🙁


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:06 pm
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ah, feel for you and the kids too. nothing that hasn't been repeated. but hugs to you and family.

I'll keep an eye out for any funding page.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:09 pm
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I don’t know you per se as I’m on only here sporadically.

But I wouldn’t wish this on anyone; every word about you from others has been positive to say the least.

Involve your kids in the situation and help each other through this. There is light at the other end, I assure you.

I’ve donated and hope that enough is raised for a damn good celebration. Of her life, your time together and the children with whom she’s blessed you.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:19 pm
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Sometimes, this place is full of ****t$. Sometimes it's not. This is one of those times.

https://www.gofundme.com/stw-mrs-gnusmas-funeral-expenses


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:20 pm
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Sorry to hear that. My condolences go out to you.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:22 pm
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So sorry to hear of your loss. 🙁


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:32 pm
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Oh no, we are *t$

Just *t$ with good hearts when our friends need us.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:36 pm
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That is truly awful, so sorry.  Take all the offers of help that come your way, and make sure you're good to yourself as well as the kids and family.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:38 pm
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So sorry for you


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:48 pm
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Really sorry for your loss, just be honest with the kids, be prepared for them to have a clarity of thought that you might be missing right now.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 4:51 pm
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Sorry for your loss, wishing you strength and peace.

if you were near I'd get my Mrs to cook you up some meals for the next few nights... Please ask someone close to do this for you... they'll be only too happy to help Im sure.

Good luck


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 5:05 pm
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No smart words, just huge sympathy. You know there is a good group on here if you need any support, either practical or talking.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 5:16 pm
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So sorry to hear this..lots of love to you, your kids and the rest of your friends and family.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 5:23 pm
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Jeez... No words can convey as to your loss. My sincere condolences.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 6:06 pm
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Sorry for your loss 🙁

Poor guy (& kids). Heartbreaking news.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 6:06 pm
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So so sorry


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 6:11 pm
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So sorry for your and the children’s loss. You are in our thoughts today.

My brother in law lost his wife earlier this year and I am in admiration at the strength he has found from somewhere to keep on going, you will find it aswell and the kids will help you through.

Look after yourself and hug your children tonight for as long as possible.

Deepest condolences.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 6:20 pm
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Mate, I am so sorry for your loss, hope you can stay strong for your kids.

My wife’s first husband past away suddenly in his early 30’s leaving her with two girls, the youngest just a few months old.

slowly but surely she picked up the pieces, it will take time but you will get there.

there are benefits available to you such as widowers pension, it’s not massive, I think about £500 a month, clearly it’s No consolation but it may help ease the financial burden.

i will donate, wish I could do more!


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 6:41 pm
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I'm very sorry for your loss Mr G, I was the same several years ago when my mother passed on, all I can say is, "if someone offeres help, take it", it's not a sign of weakness or giving in, it's that people care and have probably been through the same.

Alan.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 6:45 pm
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Thinking of you all.

Love,

Pete.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 6:52 pm
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Sincere condolences to both you and your your children.

Sending positive thoughts from down south.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 6:58 pm
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Gnusmas, No words really gutted and I don’t know you.

Get all the support you need, long road ahead.

Cheers Phil


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 7:27 pm
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Really sorry to hear such sad news. Take care.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 8:03 pm
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Haven't stopped crying yet but have managed to break the news to the kids. Probably the hardest thing i will ever have to do. The looks on their faces, the crying and calling out for Mummy will probably haunt me for a long time. 4 utterly distraught kids and a Dad struggling to keep it together for their sakes. It's going to be a long night. Just managing to get 5 mins to thank you all from the bottom of my heart.

Haven't read your comments yet, but i wll do.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 8:08 pm
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Very sorry to hear about the sad news.

Stay strong for yourself and the kids.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 8:24 pm
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Mate, I’m just gutted to hear this. Hold those little ones very tightly tonight, they will need you. I fear there aren’t words that can even come close to easing the pain your going through, so I’ll leave it with letting you know your in my thoughts. Take care chap.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 8:45 pm
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so sorry to hear about your loss gnusmas, followed your story so i know you'll do right by the kids, have donated to the good cause


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 8:45 pm
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Mate, if I could give you a bloody huge hug at this precise moment, I would.

But I'm afraid in this instance you're just going to have to have accept one in good faith.

Dusty in here isn't it.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 8:46 pm
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My heart goes out to you. Can't imagine how tough this must be.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 8:58 pm
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So sorry to hear this; whether or not you were already fearing it, that's dreadful news.

My very best wishes to you and your kids, gnusmas.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 9:07 pm
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bloody hell, horrific, ive got tears in my eyes reading your posts.  i cant imagine what youre going through, there really are no words.

all i can say is this site really comes up trumps when it matters.

all the best mate.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 9:14 pm
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So sorry for your loss, I could not even start to think about what you are going through.

Have donated too, hope it goes someway to help you and your family.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 9:15 pm
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Thoughts are with you and the kids dude.

If you're in the Glasgow area or nearby and need anything, just ask


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 9:20 pm
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Just devastating. My thoughts are with all of you.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 9:28 pm
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Shine bright, shine strong. Love to you and yours.


 
Posted : 27/06/2018 9:34 pm
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I can’t even begin to imagine how you feel

Sending big love from all here

Stay strong brother


 
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