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Emailed you through your blog ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:19 am
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Hora. Why on earth are you trying to set your dumped friend up with a man who has commitment issues?


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:20 am
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I want her to get out there and enjoy herself. Potentially misguided yes but good to meet new people, compare with what she had and what the potential is like.

i.e. go out there and let her hair down for once.


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:23 am
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because he is hora and he always thinks things through. She was recently dumped he wants to leave the country , doesn nto want to be tied down and do a high risk sport what could possibly go wrong?
PS my mail in profile ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:23 am
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Oddjob, look at your keyboard. Notice just how close K is to the N! total unintentional spelling mistake that I rarely make!


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:25 am
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Needless to say, this was not an easy decision to make and I have thought long and hard about its implications but, as selfish as it actually sounds, I feel I need to end this chapter of my life and begin a new one on my own with my own ambitions and this unfortunately means I cannot continue in the pretense of a happy relationship.

Dude, if you need to do it then you need to do it. It is horrible, but sometimes these things need to be done. Well done for actually finishing the relationship rather than let it stagnate over a longer period of time - it's not an easy thing to do.


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:26 am
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Why on earth are you trying to set your dumped friend up with a man who has commitment issues?

yeah, why? lol


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:26 am
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PS my mail in profile

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I am thinking like a male here but she really does need to get out there, meet people and see where and if there is synergy and with who.

After all, you can't pick yourself up and run straight into rebound can you?


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:27 am
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After all, you can't pick yourself up and run straight into rebound can you?

indeed, there has to be a person to bounce off in the first place.

maybe not quite yet but thanks for the contact!


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:34 am
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Oddjob, look at your keyboard. Notice just how close K is to the N! total unintentional spelling mistake that I rarely make!

Nonsense! It would have been JNEW, BNEW, MNEW or HNEW first!

Anyway it seems to me that you were unhappy and separately wanted to do your climbing thing - not that the two were related (i.e. that you'd need to be single/with a climber/someone else to do so).

Best of luck, breaking up is never easy...


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:36 am
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Nonsense! It would have been JNEW, BNEW, MNEW or HNEW first!

ok, you win, im a retard for using a homophone thanks for kicking me while i'm down! ๐Ÿ˜›


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:43 am
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Hora - if really "[i]she could walk into a bar tonight and have a choice if she wanted [/i]"... then pics to my inbox ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 11:59 am
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Well maybe not any man. She'd get laid though 100%.


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 12:02 pm
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mark just e-mail her details to everyone on this thread who asked it is what any friend would do in this situation.
She will thank you at the wedding for this


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 12:07 pm
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If our culture allowed I would offer the baton of haremship to her however I think I would wake up one morning missing my tackle if I put that proposition to mrshora ๐Ÿ˜ฏ


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 12:16 pm
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Well maybe not any man. She'd get laid though 100%.

Tch.. men... ๐Ÿ™„


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 12:18 pm
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Whereas the other way round if we walked into the bar we'd be guaranteed to receive a slap, bottled and told to **** off.


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 12:20 pm
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not sure I like the fact that this thread has turned into a lonely hearts column! :p


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 12:21 pm
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Ach your right. Back to the norm:

MTFU OP you wet minge. Wee in her shoes then own her CD collection with Bombers.


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 12:23 pm
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will a set of Recons do? I could pour dot 5 in her Laboutins?


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 12:26 pm
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Just had a text from her asking why I have deleted certain pictures of us (I haven't BTW, she can't bloody find them)!

when is it a good time to think about a facebook clear out because we all know that facebook is just an extension to our real feeling innit!! ๐Ÿ˜ฏ


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 1:09 pm
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Danger, Will Robinson. There speaks a woman who doesn't really believe she's been dumped.


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 1:42 pm
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Well maybe not any man. She'd get laid though 100%.

Pictures!


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 2:21 pm
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There speaks a woman who doesn't really believe she's been dumped.

yeah I know that. she thinks I don't know what I want as she is almost certainly in denial. I don't want to push the point that I have made my mind up, made it weeks ago.


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 2:34 pm
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Send her a link to this thread and she'll realise how it's actually a lucky escape for her.


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 2:40 pm
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What a bloody good idea Carry....

....sent!

not really!


 
Posted : 19/10/2010 2:45 pm
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