Taking a picture of yourself naked in the mirror and send over to her.
Make sure you think dirty thoughts about her first and give it a good shake otherwise she'll think someones sent her a picture of Chicken Giblets.
Send her a picture of an alsation, and say "if you were my alsation I'd put you on a lead, take you for walks and only feed you Iams."
Sometimes (not particularly infrequently) people need to be nudged out of their relationshipsWTF? seriously WTF?
In my experience, sometimes people muddle along in relationships that are not ideal for them, without realising that there is someone else they know that fancies them and would be better. People often have a tendency not to believe that someone else might like them - a self esteem thing.
I think you mis-understood what I was getting at. I wouldn't advocate the breaking up of a happy relationship, but not all relationships are happy or productive, despite being long-lived.
Actually text her first and ask her opinion on Chicken giblets. She may actually like them boiled with alittle rice. You never know with girls nowadays.
So I have the cowboy boots, ky and horse whip, now all I need is tj, or a guy called dave
IT dep'ts up and down the country are feeling nervous/worried/excited at the news 😆
Grips, just checking; you do know that other peoples relationships are none of your business, right?
Except when they ask for advice on STW, then it becomes [b]everyones[/b] business 😉
Nickc,
grips didn't say anything aimed directly at h and her other half.
I have a strong feeling though that there's is a relationship which was born out of requirement rather then based on true feelings. However I don't know enough about it tbh, as I don't see her enough and I have never ever been with h and either of her ex/current bf when they have been togeather.
So when did you last actually meet up and does she tell her BF where she is going and who with?
You've also never met her boyfriend and yet you say
And no I'm not scared of her pathetic bf
so presumably that has come from something she said to you, unless are you assuming that he must be pathetic as he lets his GF go off for "weekends of fun" with another bloke?
Nope I have met her current boyfriend, twice once when they were not going out and again when she was not present.
I last saw her on may 18th last year for a couple of days, but ii stayed at her mums house for a week last september. I don't talk to her about her bf either.
First step in winning this lady is asking...
'How are things with you and pissflaps (insert bf's name as appropriate)?'
You need to find an angle, get some leverage, for all you know she might be head of heels in loce with the fella, in which case your wasting your time.... and ours! 🙂
ianpinder, I know, my incredulity is based merely on grips assumption that he's happy to 'nudge' people out of relationships. Something I'd never presume to do.
[i]In my experience, sometimes people muddle along in relationships that are not ideal for them[/i]
the molgrips Clinic for relationship counseling will presumably be opening presently...
In all fairness I have had friends who bumble along in relationships, but like I said I don't know enough about this one to comment. Though her mum doesn't really like him to much
[i]Though her mum doesn't really like him to much [/i]
Mum in: "Not Liking Boyfriend Much" shocker
😀
This thread is great, has brightened up my day. Please do keep it coming, freudian spelling slips and all.
And do we know if she likes chicken giblets yet?!
You have to ask yourself this........
Am I prepared to wait another +/- 5 months to find out if there is 'anything there' on her part, and if there isn't, am I prepared to carry on with seeing her every 20 months in the vain hope that she, or circumstances, might change her mind.
Surely it is better to know and get on with your (love)life, whichever way it pans out, than carrying on in virtual limbo. You're only in your mid 20's so you have plenty time but wouldn't you rather know [b]now[/b]!
From my own (bitter) experience and having the grand total of 3 'ex-wives', the thing I regret most is the one that (maybe) got away. She was engaged when I met her and being an honourable chap I didn't say a word about how I felt and she duly got married to the other guy. Never experienced anything quite like it since and it may not have worked out but at least I wouldn't occassionally think, [i]what if[/i] .............
ps. what does her Mum look like and is she single 😉
You don't want to go near her mum. Read page 2 for the explanation.
I am prepaired to wait, I still see other girls, just they are not quite as good, not that I tell them that. So were meeting at the end of September then will have a 3 day jaunt to the alps with her next summer.
Weird.
Read page 2 for the explanation.
Ah! I thought she was ranting about her [b]job[/b] 😯
100!
100 posts who would of thought it was that interesting