lol @ perchy!
He was a travelling salesman and had a family either end of the M4. He'd been doing it completley in secret for 20 yearsOn reading that my first thought isn't "how?" but for friths sake "why"?
He was never having to spend nights away from home !
We are designed
Nope 8)
I thought these days we were all allowed our proper ride and a fatty.
I've got one for the mucky stuff and one for the road. Almost forgot, there's one in the shed I do the shopping with.
Ok we have developed..
OP, if it's not about sex, then may I venture to suggest that you have a mate who you very much love the company of who just so happens to be female. No reason why that is not compatible with marriage if you have a reasonably not jealous (...) wife.
Good luck!
Never been able to do it myself, lousy at keeping secrets.
For sure there are lots of people we [i]could[/i] get on with really well and be close to, but unless you are in an open relationship, or there are some big mitigating factors (eg sexually incompatable with wife/primary partner but in happy companionate marriage which you wish to preserve) I think it is best avoided.
I am not sure you should have such an intense secondary relationship without the go ahead of your primary partner. How would you feel if the boot was on the other foot? Or your wife on someone else?
And emotional infidelity might be as important to your wife as sexual infidelity, so "not being about sex" might not make her any happier.
Actually I'm not sure if the OP means "love".