[Closed] Help needed! Getting out of the friend zone!

Its a bit of a risky moment when you do take the plunge

Might be a good idea to tie some rope round your waist and the other end round the bed post, just in case.

You can't plant the seed unless you take the plunge.

Plant the seed, let it grow into a plant...then you **** THE PLANT!

Any updates? dithering minds need to know

are you flying high or drowning your sorrows? update please.

Whatever happens- it'll work out ok in the end..
But c'mon, tell us!

she's seen this thread. That "could" work for you. HEY LADY this guy's ok, he's on stw! I'm sure he's perfectly normal!

**** THE PLANT
. Good advice.

C'mon O.P. I don't watch soaps so lurking on here is my vicarious living. I need to know how this turned out!!!

I hope your lack of an update means you're still round there giving her one.

The silence is deafening

I've been friends with her for 13 years

Good luck, you are going to need it!

Best thing you can do is find another girl and try and take her out for a drink within a couple of weeks, rather than taking 13 years.

... keeping the dream alive... any update?

He's balls deep in lurve

Let's hope it's not a case of...

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that's preposterous

a gentleman never takes ice with whisky

That's hers, not his

A mercy killing perhaps

I smell shame.

The only shame there has been is the fact that this time I had to cancel due to work.

We have booked tickets to see les mis on the in two weeks, however I don't want to wait that long.

I'm going to ring her when I come of nights

Just do it! For Christ sake put us out of our misery! 😉

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FFS, stop thinking of yourself and think of us

FFS, stop thinking of yourself and think of us

Will do!

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Argh this is more painful than a Nora Ephron film!

We have booked tickets to see les mis on the in two weeks

There's a suspicion she thinks you're gay, so you're taking her to see a musical? Well, I suppose if Kylie isn't touring isn't on at the moment, that'll just have to do 😆

Priscilla Queen of the Desert is also touring

The only shame there has been is the fact that this time I had to cancel due to work.

I'm going to be honest. I don't think you like her [i]that[/i] much. If you did you'd act asap. Let someone else go out with her and you stick to being Raj Koothrappali.

Sorry, if you fancied her that much you'd have done it by now. Men being men- once we want something we take it. If its a no we move onto the next.

Lol @ hora's big bang reference! I told you that he was the bloke to ask in the first few posts of this thread 🙂

hora - Member

Sorry, if you fancied her that much you'd have done it by now. Me being hora- once I want something I buy it, decide I don't want it and sell it next week.

FTFY

binners - Member

We have booked tickets to see les mis on the in two weeks

There's a suspicion she thinks you're gay, so you're taking her to see a musical? Well, I suppose if Kylie isn't touring isn't on at the moment, that'll just have to do

Has he actually catagorically stated he's not gay ??

Hold on.... is he actually a BLOKE ? he could be a girl ? this would make so much more sense if he's a female !!!

There's a suspicion she thinks you're gay, so you're taking her to see a musical? Well, I suppose if Kylie isn't touring isn't on at the moment, that'll just have to do

Sorry, if you fancied her that much you'd have done it by now. Me being hora- once I want something I buy it, decide I don't want it and sell it next week.

😆

You're right weeksy. There could be some half rice/half chips going on here

Men being men - once we want something we take it.

Hora! Surely you're not suggesting.....

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😯

No, think of it as those new shiny 55 RC3 Ti forks you've been looking at on the wall at your local bike shop. One day you think 'I'm having those' and you slip your Credit card into the shop-keep's hand.

The OP on the other hand will still be down at the male sauna before popping out to be buy some new tight jeans and a white vest for his night out at Heaven.

stick to being a Raj Koothrappali 😀

does he have to drink to be able to speak to her.?DOOMED 😯
And have to agree going to a musical you may be her GBF.

Just do it ,before it turns into tatty water

Thinking of subtle ways to put your message across.
Give her a copy of last christmas by wham! and a condom for christmas?
Text her saying you have got the horrible horn?

Men being men - once we want something we take it. If its a no we move onto shots

If your happy just being friends with her my mail is in my profile, please feel free to share it with her (or any of the above STW'ers).

FFS stop making lame excuses and get on with it!
"I'll call her when I get off nights" is the sort of thing you say when you meant to ring your Mum.
Procrastination is the thief of time and all that.
Carpe Diem not Tuesday fortnight.

Goes back to my comment earlier on though. He obviously doesn't like her that much.

hora - Member

If your happy just being friends with her my mail is in my profile

Ah, must have forgot. Heres one of me at work

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Hey prettty lady