^^ I'm glad my lad is 25 to be honest. I'm still amazed that this guy is consisted a role model by his followers. It's actually bloody terrifying.
Can someone help fill in the backstory? Because I feel I’m missing something.
But I seem to have missed how this gets you in a Romanian prison on sex trafficking charges.
I believe the allegations are that US nationals were trafficked by Tate and his brother under false pretences and then under the threat of violence were forced to preform in pornography videos which would be sold as a money making venture.
^^ The Guardian also reporting that he'll likely be charged with rape too so looks like he took a very "personal" interest in his new business venture. Yuck.
I hope he has a long and very, very miserable time in jail.
Didn’t really know much about him until recently, and know absolutely nothing of that Julia Hartley-Brewer!
It’s sort of a problematic thing about the social media bubbles, we actually don’t realise what other people/friends family/kids are being exposed to in their social media streams unless we have very similar interests to theirs.
This being hi lighted in the Brexit referendum of the various Facebook adds being selectively target to various groups,(like animals then leave the eu to have better animal protection etc). We only saw what had been used after the fact.
And a sneaky edit- Oh and actually partake in social media 🙂
I hope he has a long and very, very miserable time in jail.
Well I am sure that a Romanian jail will prove to be a very masculine environment so presumably he won't be too miserable.
I agree that Individuals filled with hate have always existed, however what our ubiquitous social media does is allow their views to propagate on a mass scale and therefore seed (create) other hateful individuals by giving weight to their distorted beliefs. People aren’t born hateful they pick that up in their lives. Social media a hugely amplified version of the individual with megaphone in the town square. The trouble is that social media is poorly moderated and the people preaching hate don’t get booted out as fast as they might in the old town square.
Somehow, and I’m not sure how, it is the responsibility of hetro men to disavow these gullible kids of valuing his views and him as a person
Not sure I’m grasping the logic here. It’s up to the kids parents and peers to educate and keep an eye on what their kids are viewing online. Not sure what I, as a hetro white male, could do tbh. I didn’t even know who this idiot was until I saw this thread. Seems like a failure on the whole instilling values in to your kids front and I say this as the father of a nine year old boy. I’d be having a serious and frank discussion with him if he started exhibiting behaviours associated with this kind of idiot.
12 yr old monkey jnr started talking about AT a few weeks ago, and having no idea who is was, I brushed it off as the usual pre-teen wannabe social media hype. Then yesterday I read about Greta's take down and suddenly YouTube started pushing videos relating AT, including this one by Coffeezilla (the dude that investigates scammers and fraudsters).
Very interesting, and illustrates how must of a smug, arrogant, narcissistic and dangerous $&*( AT is.
Hope he and his brother spend many uncomfortable weeks at the hands of their Romanian captors before being properly sent down.
I'm also going to have a quiet chat with my lad to see what his previous thoughts were on him.
Hmmm…and now he’s been detained as part of an investigation into rape and human trafficking. What a lovely chap.
Edit apologies I see this has already been mentioned. Can’t seem to delete it!
Well I checked in with my 16 yr old about Mr Tate - the answer I got was 'yeah of course I've heard of him, what an absolute tw*t he is. Very pleased with that answer!
I was only dimly aware of him before this, and I knew he's been kicked of Twitter for saying some of the things he's said about women. But I've just watched that Piers Morgan video, and while I'm no psychologist, I don't think I've ever seen anyone project their own self-loathing quite as transparently as that man does. I mean He's clearly created this hateful performance to deal with it, but lordy I hope he gets some help for that, it's sort of pitiable
Given his whole schtick for sleeping only with virgins, I'm guessing that his first sexual encounter didn't go well, I wonder what happened? did she laugh at him, could he not get it up, came in his pants? Fascinating what people will do to compensate.
could he not get it up,
Do you know me?
came in his pants?
Oh, yes you do.
Well I checked in with my 16 yr old about Mr Tate – the answer I got was ‘yeah of course I’ve heard of him, what an absolute tw*t he is. Very pleased with that answer!
Top kid you have there 👍🏼
I didn’t even know who this idiot was until I saw this thread. Seems like a failure on the whole instilling values in to your kids front and I say this as the father of a nine year old boy. I’d be having a serious and frank discussion with him if he started exhibiting behaviours associated with this kind of idiot.
I used to think I was a good parent, my hubris has diminished as they progress through double digits.
Brace yourself for the coming decade, it may well shake your confidence in your ability to "instill values".
I'm sure your lad is lovely but your interweb bubble and his will shortly be diverging, he won't tell you everything going on in his life or what he's viewing online, and will push back hard on any controls you try to impose or find ways to work around them.
And the Andrew Tate's of this world know how to work the old Al-Gore-Rhythm so they pop up in his feeds but not his Dad's...
I speak as a Farther to girls, who have to go to school with other kids (male and female), all of whom are very much online and being overtly targeted by an unregulated "influencer" industry. I've no doubt AT has reached someone within my own kids sphere and and marred their world view. Some influencers just want to flog make-up or footwear, others want to work on kid's insecurities and sell them "supplements" and "courses" it's a murky, capitalist fever dream.
Influencers are of course all narcissistic parasites, some obviously worse than others, but this is the world we've collectively slipped into creating for our kids to grow up in. My most challenging decision was figuring out a good place to stash a hedge-pron windfall, browser histories and parental monitoring was not yet a thing. My teenage years passed with relatively little parental interfering but there wasn't an internet full of alt-right nutters, influencers and bots trying to mess with my simpleton brain...
I'm affraid the old "I blame the parents" line is a bit redundant now, the thirty minutes of daily input you will get with your son by the time he's thirteen will pale into nothingness Vs the 8+ hours of his attention that tiktok and YT will score.
My advice (if you want it) stay quiet, keep your eyes and ears open and look at the sort of friends they make and what interests they take up, that's about the only indication you're likely to get on how they're developing as young people...
Good luck.
Thanks for the tips. He doesn’t have any sort of online presence at the moment. Any that does occur in the future will be closely monitored until he can show he is capable of self policing. At 13 there will be no Tik Tok and YouTube usage will be monitored too. It’s one area that I’ll be very tight in tbh. My social media bubble is here so no chance of crossover!
Luckily he takes after his mum more than me. That should hopefully make him slightly easier to deal with as a teenager. If he ends up like me (god forbid) then he’ll have to work very hard to get anything by me. I pretty much wrote the book on rebellious toe rag behaviour. He’s had a much better and more stable upbringing than me so far which is good.
Top kid you have there 👍🏼
Ha, mostly, thanks - he has his moments! It's a difficult world now for teenagers, we just have to role model and promote positive behaviours towards others, kids learn what they live and see around them...
When junior was about 14 junior he crashed my computer with virus that required a lot of effort to sort out. The Internet history that led to the crash introduced me to a world that I was as unaware of as AT before this thread. As Cougar alludes, it doesn't mean that they think what they view is acceptable to "normal" people in the "real" world. "Most people" have the ability to make the distintion between fantasy and reality, and actors acting and "normal" people living. The problem with social media is that kids can contribute and it becomes part of their "real" world and normalised. A bit like STW, nobody in the real world can be that interested in car tyres can they !
For some reason, my YT link didn't embed in my earlier post:
Then yesterday I read about Greta’s take down and suddenly YouTube started pushing videos relating AT, including this one by Coffeezilla (the dude that investigates scammers and fraudsters).
I joined Andrew Tate's cult and it was worse than I thought
Rape and sex trafficking of young women
One can only got that the Romanian prison system doles out the karma
Also another own goal by musk
Well, following this on Twitter throws up few surprises. The (rare) account defending him also seem to be very keen for other countries to withdraw support for Ukraine. Who knows if they’re the kind of person seeking out “the truth” on the internet, or just accounts seeding/reinforcing this stuff. Either way… social media, eh? Not exactly benign, and does look to be getting worse.
yeah of course I’ve heard of him, what an absolute tw*t he is.
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️
I’ve just read that ‘calmdownben’ piece, and his dismissal of Thunberg’s part rings slightly hollow when he says this:
“On Wednesday, he got into a Twitter fight with Greta Thunberg, the young European climate activist who had a viral moment a few years ago. Thunberg is not known for her sense of humor so when she dunked on Tate it went viral.”
That’s just not true. Her quick comebacks against trolling by people like Trump have shown that she has a very sharp and perceptive sense of humour.
As does this: “this is what happens when you don’t recycle your pizza boxes”
While she may not have been entirely responsible, her poking at Tate seems to have got him angry enough to be careless about what he posted, those pizzas were likely just the last little thing that was needed to confirm his presence at that time.
I hope the repulsive boil on humanities ass gets life in the worst Romanian prison and loses everything he owns.
JHB seems to have gone quiet about choosing Tate's life over Thunberg's *every single time* - not so keen on Romanian prison life?
that Australian with the iron mask,
🤨 Seriously? He was French, I thought you of all folk would know that.
No, you learn something every day.
Ned Quelley
I'm now wondering if you're making a joke (on top of mine) or we're at crossed purposes 😆
EDIT :ah that one. I meant the other one.
Since we're at it can I include Rob Roy (not Roy of the Rovers)? Sheep shagger turned chaperone.
Ned Quelley
Subtle, well done
The social media support for Tate really is quite grim.
Gone are the days when cults were all secretive and done behind closed doors for of being exposed in public and losing everything.
These cults are being played out in full view of everyone with little repercussions for those running the scam
Tommy Robinson, Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate, Alex Jones and probably loads more I'm thankfully not aware of. Grifting cult leaders the lot of them
Subtle, well done
Merci.
Just realised this is the guy who was filmed abusing a (Slovakian?) prostitute in a hotel room for not speaking English.
Good freaking riddance, you next Tuesday.
Good bit of watching and reading that explores the modern phenomena of these influencer types:
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m001g9sq/episodes/player
Good interview about the series from Chris Williamson talking to the creator, Helen Lewis.
So he has been formally charged human trafficking, rape and forming an organized criminal group, and will be remanded in custody for 30 days.
Presumably this means that they have sufficient evidence to proceed.
If found guilty human trafficking, rape and forming an organized criminal group, must result in a long period of incastration. I wonder how Romanians taxpayers feel about having to house British criminals.
Perhaps selling off Tate's fleet of luxury cars with enormous emissions might help to cover the costs?
incastration
At least that should shod him of the alpha male testosterone overload.
LOL! I thought I had checked the spelling of incarceration! Not sure what happened 😁
Freudian snip?
Just a thought - you all shout about his misogyny, and then someone is happy to describe him as a see you next Tuesday… Maybe that says a bit too much about society these days?
Freudian Snip
Brilliant lol
Just a thought – you all shout about his misogyny, and then someone is happy to describe him as a see you next Tuesday… Maybe that says a bit too much about society these days?
I do think about that from time to time, but I'd happily call him a Prison Romania Is Cited Knowingly to his face.
then someone is happy to describe him as a see you next Tuesday
Greta Thunberg made a suggestive and mocking comment concerning the size of Tate's penis.
So I think references to genitalia is fair game.
Including the claim that Tate is a big **** with a probably a small dick.
sort of as Pondo said, I think it's one word with two meanings, the 'literal' one and the other one meaning an execrable excuse for a human being. I don't think the two conflate but others may disagree.
In a similar vein (kyuk!) in the best swearing of 2022 when Jill Scott gave both barrels to the german player, I didn't read anything into her use of f***ing pr**k - she was just letting her know she didn't think much of her tackling technique.
I’d happily call him a Prison Romania Is Cited Knowingly to his face.
He's six foot three tall and a world champion kickboxer whose last professional fight, which he won, was only two years ago.
I would call him a prick if I was standing behind you and there was a set of prison bars between us.
