first world ethical...
 

MegaSack DRAW - This year's winner is user - rgwb
We will be in touch

[Closed] first world ethical conumdrum

17 Posts
13 Users
0 Reactions
64 Views
Posts: 0
Free Member
Topic starter
 

me and a mate both work in London and travel from manc. he gets free travel i have to provide my own. for whatever reason his pass is valid for two people. so wherever possible we go together and i get his spare seat.

however, for the privilege he expects me to pay for the taxi's to and from Mcr Picc on Mon morning/Thurs afty. which is £50. so even though im still saving loads, he travels completely free. i go along with it because of the saving but its bugging the hell out of me, i cant decide if its me or him being the tight barsteward, but i would definitely offer to pay half the taxi fare if the roles reversed.

in my eyes we do each other a favour, as he would have to pay full whack for the taxis without me?


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:05 am
Posts: 11381
Free Member
 

You're being tight imo. You're still saving money


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:07 am
Posts: 56830
Full Member
 

Suck it up you tight-arse! He's doing you a favour and saving you a fortune. And you're moaning about it?!

What exactly are you wanting out of this arrangement Susan? Carrying to the station on a Sudan Chair? 🙄

[img] [/img]

Anything else you'd like, sweetheart?

[img] [/img]


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:09 am
Posts: 6
Free Member
 

You're tight.

How much more out of pocket would you be if you covered the total travel cost?


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:09 am
Posts: 8328
Full Member
 

Are you for real! You save more than he does and yet this isn't enough for you. He may be your mate but you certainly aren't his.


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:09 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Expects ? what a ****, however you should offer...


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:10 am
Posts: 13817
Full Member
 

You're being the tight barsteward.


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:11 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Why does it bug you? He travels for free as that's the deal he gets, you get a return for 50 quid which saves you 200 notes. I think if you don't start to address these issues in yourself you'll end up a very unhappy person.


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:16 am
Posts: 657
Free Member
 

If it bugs you so much get him to pay half the taxi and buy your own train ticket. You'll still be saving but teaching him a lesson at the same time 😀


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:19 am
Posts: 13817
Full Member
 

Or you could negotiate free train travel with [b]your[/b] employer and then go halves on the taxi fair!


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:22 am
Posts: 16363
Free Member
 

I can see the other side. Your mate is effectively asking you to pay for something he gets free. Yes you are benefiting but it's hardly a mate-like deal. If you get something for free you pass it on for free.


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:23 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
Topic starter
 

haha, ok its me, noted! 😀

id never walk away from the arrangement or owt, just a little back & forth we have in the taxi. if i was provifding the free travel, id still pay half to the taxi.


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:23 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
Topic starter
 

phew, cheers nick.


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:24 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Can't either of you claim the taxi fare back on expenses?

Anyway if its bugging you that much make your own way to the station and pay your own train fair. That'll teach him. 🙂

[i]if i was provifding the free travel, id still pay half to the taxi.[/i]

Me to but your mate must be more profit orientated than you.


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:24 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

I'm baffled as to why he gets two seats.


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:38 am
Posts: 2661
Free Member
 

If you had anything about you, you get a proper bloody Northern Job instead 😀


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:40 am
Posts: 56830
Full Member
 

I'm baffled as to why he gets two seats.

Has he recently lost an awful lot of weight? Or ended an illicit affair?

He isn't expecting anything more ... ahem... 'physical' in return, in those lonely nights in a hotel room, miles away from home, is he? 😉


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 10:52 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

I'm on the split the cab fare and then a few pints, pies, tyres, whatevers, are offered as a thank you.

Maybe you are a tight wad, OP?


 
Posted : 05/11/2014 11:04 am