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i left my long term girl friend a week ago her parents have just turned up unannounced and come in to my flat to take her stuff, im might pissed of, should i let them do it or throw em out? and remove the stuff with my ex and my self only?
i.e they let them selves in with her key
quickly print out any naughty pictures of your ex and leave em scattered about......
let them do it, however take the key off them when they leave unless its joint mortgage/tenancy
how can they be sure what's hers & what's yours? Keep a very close eye on them if you do decide to let them in
Why would you stop them taking [i]her[/i] stuff?
But aye - get the key off them on the way out if it is [i]your [/i]flat/house.
Ask them if they want to take her collection of sex toys.
Let them take stuff you accept isn't yours.
Any disputed stuff stays pending resolution.
If you left her, then she's probably too upset to pick her own stuff up. She's going to have to have it back at some point do might as well get it over with.
Had to replace a door on a house when the psycho parents came round and repossed all thir daughters stuff,the neighbours called the police when the inlaws turned up with a tractor, seems as if everything was ok, as she had a joint tenancy and the front door key, so the police left, poor lad came home that night and the house was empty.
yes let them as it indicates a clean break but make sure they only take her stuff
I would have issues with them using her key if you did not know as I assume this is trespass or entering or some such
i have compromised im not going to kick of im just talking loudly how im not going to kick of so not to upset my ex, but to let em know what i think of them. If she rang and arraigned i could have got boxes for her stuff and we could have taken our time.
Whilst it's not ideal just let them take her stuff.
no she is crying and i feel shit 🙁
Very rude not to knock first and just use the key.
Let her get her stuff. Why not?
Make sure ALL/Everything is gone and with her parents as witness there is nothing left to collect.
See this as the bookmark and fullstop point.
its the turning up letting them selves in bit im pissed about!
Call the cops if they used a key.
Get out over and done with, but keep a close eye on, probably should only have one of them in the place with you. Don't let them go rummaging around either, be clear and get her belongings out for them to box up etc or they'll take all kinds
You should have expected that as they used to live there.
Call the cops if they used a key.
And say what? "I gave her a key and she used it"?
Giving someone a key is giving them permission to use it.....
So if the parents are going through the house getting her stuff together, what's the ex doing? Title reads like she's there too?
So if the parents are going through the house getting her stuff together, what's the ex doing? Title reads like she's there too?
yea she is hear.
I read that she wasn't there.
Can't see a problem with letting themselves in then to be honest.
I appreciate this is a bit of a hard time etc, but I'm now reading this as "my ex girlfriend has shown up at our shared house to collect her stuff, has bought her parents to help/ support."
Shouldn't they be collecting it all from the lawn, bushes, underneath the windows etc?
Maybe they though you would not be there? That might have been easier for you all to deal with.
As people have already said, consider this a new page.
Oh and make sure the last thing you do as they are leaving hands full carrying a box full of stuff is place that massive 12" rubber c0ck she has on top of the box saying "oh don't forget BIG DAVE"
Play this loud.
billytinkle - Member
Can't see a problem with letting themselves in then to be honest.
They don't live there, and its not their place. I presume she's over 18 and legally able to manage herself so they have no right. The OP is entitled to his privacy.
Our Inlaws have keys to our place, and we theirs, but we always knock and don't let ourselves in out of courtesy.
The OP is entitled to [s]his[/s] [b][u]her[/u][/b] privacy.
😉
Be nice, make them a cup of tea, say bye when they go.
How have people misread a thread title of "[b]ex just turned up [/b]with parents, ffs"
Seems eminently reasonable that she brings some support with her when picking her stuff up.
You got 2 options
1. Stand there and watch them: weird and creepy, massively upsetting for everyone
2. The pub.
How have people misread a thread title of "ex just turned up with parents, ffs"
Welcome to the [s]internet[/s] World.
well shes gone, her stuff has gone. I feel kind of relived. 🙂
Pub is still open 😆
You got 2 options1. Stand there and watch them: weird and creepy, massively upsetting for everyone
2. The pub.
Option 1. Every. Single. Time.
Option 1. Every. Single. Time.
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[quote=emsz ]Pub is still open 😆
my ex girlfriend has shown up at our shared house to collect her stuff, has bought her parents to help/ support.
i paid the rent, all of it for last 6 years.
Where you just following them around updating us on your phone/ipad/laptop? 😯
i paid the rent, all of it for last 6 years.
More fool you then!
Where you just following them around updating us on your phone/ipad/laptop?
lol 🙂
3dvgirl - Member
well shes gone, her stuff has gone. I feel kind of relived.
As long as you've got the key, Job done. Now, have fun 🙂
jamie is lying, he just sends photoshopped photos of his mansion to his ex's to prove there's nothing there of theirs anymore. he of course keeps their stuff and sells it to fund his .gif machine
[i]Where you just following them around updating us on your phone/ipad/laptop? [/i]
And reading the responses out loud.
As long as you've got the key, Job done. Now, have fun
That's whats got me in to this position 🙂
Six years of paying the rent?
**** that.
You should've put her stuff on eBay. 😈
There's a joke about 'paying the rent' in here but I'd probably get banned 🙂
Send me your co-ordinates i will fire up the global hawk, you've got ten minutes to get out, keep 'em occupied give them a pot noodle!
I feel kind of relived.
Born again?
whether or not you got the key change the locks , make sure there are no joint liabilities (ie credit cards) that she can run up divide and close any joint assets then it's job done move on and enjoy a better world. +1 for standing around looking weird and creepy stops them looting the house.
650bBorn again?
Wasted photo opportunity on this thread 😐
Here she is getting her cheese from the fridge.... thats "her" pillow in the background.
That's whats got me in to this position
That will need an explanation now?
That's whats got me in to this position
That will need an explanation now?
With photos me thinks...
When I split from my ex she got her mum to move in for a bit! Now that was awkward.
Pik n Mix - Member
When I split from my ex she got her mum to move in for a bit! Now that was awkward.
Pics?
When I split from my ex she got her mum to move in for a bit! Now that was awkward.
Who was the best?
?[s]When[/s] Immediately before I split from my ex she got her mum to move in for a bit!
When I split from my ex she got her mum to move in for a bit! Now that was awkward.
Not as awkward as reading most of the appalling spelling and non-existent grammar in this thread................
That will need an explanation now?
all ill say is it wasn't deliberate.. umm well 🙂
On a more sensible note, can I suggest you change the locks now?
On a more sensible note, can I suggest you change the locks now?
yes perhaps that's a good idea my new umm friend is worried she may come in a wreak her vengeance upon her, for nicking her bird.. as she elegantly put it.
have you changed the locks yet or still playing with teh internets
The horse has gone, definitely lock the stable now.
still playing with teh internets
He's a recently single chap, home alone with access to teh interwebz. What do you think he's doing?
#Fapfapfap
Bloody hell you work quick.
[i]reek her vengeance[/i]
No one likes a nasty niff.
If you have a chimney also place a commode in the fireplace.
He's a recently single chap, home alone with access to teh interwebz. What do you think he's doing?#Fapfapfap
1: Im a she
2: I have no need for porn 🙂
Oops.
😳
😀
So you cheated on her. I can't say that I'm really surprised that she wasn't thinking of politeness when coming round to get her stuff...
Bloody hell you work quick.
I prefer to think of it as efficient 🙂
Sounds more like multi-tasking...
So you cheated on her. I can't say that I'm really surprised that she wasn't thinking of politeness when coming round to get her stuff...
To be fair she did **** some guy on the day we split, and top be more fair i did wake up with some one else on her birthday. Swings and roundabouts.
I think you're both best out of that relationship FWIW 😉
This is now turning in to an episode of Hollyoaks!
🙂