[Closed] Dating girls, who should pay?

If the tab was picked up, would it make you more accepting of potential advances later in the evening?

At the moment, I probably wouldn't care who picked up the tab if I fancied them... 😉

Rachel

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should've gone to pizza hut and given her the free one

TBH I find ladies eating your food when they are hungry even more annoying just feel like telling them to **** off!

Ha ha

Right now? Packet of crips I'm yours for the night 😆

Why not do a sly trade off? She drives you to a beautiful country pub, you have a few and she drives you back?

Thats the most beautiful thing I've ever heard, you hopeless romantic you

It sounds complicated!

Right now? Packet of crips I'm yours for the night

What do I get for two pounds fifty and a Curly Wurly?

RUN AWAY NOW get a real woman to sped time with, not a "lady" who thinks she is an expensive hobby for you to spend your money on .

Sounds to me like this problem will resolve itself quite quickly. She'll be off with someone else as soon as the money runs out.

If it was in the evening I'd probably go Lebanese

That's even more confusing, who's expected to pay when there's two girls?

...if you can't afford to keep a lady

This is ridiculous. As others have said - run away. It's not some expensive horse you're taking on here, it's meant to be a relationship!

What we looking at here emsz?

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Or...

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Don't even joke - I'm even wondering about these new patches...
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Packet of crips I'm yours for the night

Prawn cocktail.

best to be open if you are feeling miffed

no one likes the feeling that they are being taken for granted

Horas been taking me for granted for years. I always end up paying. I wouldn't mind... he's rubbish in bed! 😥

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Compliments

Bin bin, could you stretch to sweet Thai?

😆 😆 😆

Not one thing in particular. The whole page is making me laugh.

And I always enjoy Hora's relationship advice.

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That sounds like wanton decadence to me emsz. I could meet you half way...

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Bin bin, could you stretch to sweet Thai?

You'd be better off with a cable tie.

OP,

You pay. Woman does not pay unless you are a pimp. However, if you are married then do whatever you wish i.e. sometimes you pay sometimes she pay but try not to be petty.

In the meantime I suggest you start humping her silly to get your money worth and if she refuses then make a quick exit.

Many years ago I went out with a very fit Canadian Chinese girl, ya very fit, with expensive taste ... after many dates with no humping in sight I legged it as fast as I could no matter how fit she looked. I felt used ... 😮

Ah, irony.

If she does the ironing, I don't mind paying.

I'm hopeful of my chances in here today.

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a very fit Canadian Chinese girl

Well hello.

I once went out with a very fit British Chinese girl. We didn't leave the bedroom. Infact past the first date I don't actually remember wearing clothes.

Thats where you are going wrong Chewkw and OP. You should riding her like she is a horse in the Grand National.

what? My packet of Monster Munch isn't showing??? 🙁

I've just been a little bit sick

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What, televised?

A single twix

diet?

Hora, there are some things we don't talk about ok?

I feel a bit icky now

hora - Member

a very fit Canadian Chinese girl

Well hello.

I once went out with a very fit British Chinese girl. We didn't leave the bedroom. Infact past the first date I don't actually remember wearing clothes.

Lucky bar-stewart! 😐

Thats where you are going wrong Chewkw and OP. You should riding her like she is a horse in the Grand National.

How can you ride the expensive horse when it does not even let you ride it? I mean she is proper fit ... everywhere she/we went everyone looked at her in awe of her looks. Only if she could let me ride her and I would be the best jockey she could ever want/meet. 🙁

Lucky bar-stewart!

I've had a few as well

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hora - Member

Lucky bar-stewart!

I've had a few as well

Dammit! What have I done wrong?

The last time I saw a fit British Chinese girl her brother (a friend) prevented me of getting anyway close to her or to speak to her. 😯

You pay. Woman does not pay unless you are a pimp.

Return of Kings is over there mate, just beyond parody -------------------->

diet?

Not really.

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Those three tubs, several haribo/crisp/twix multipacks in 7 (long) days. Only between 5 people!

Pah you guys. She has such simple needs and you're still negotiating

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You're buying the next bag though, emsz

I'm actually quite hungry now 😆

You guys just done know how to treat a girl. I'd go twice as deep with emsz...

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Woman does not pay unless you are a pimp.

You rang?

And can you stop speaking like Captain Caveman.

before i trawl through four pages of this - have their been any pics of her yet?

See how many of these you can fit in

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No you're not getting pics I'm afraid but she's a 9 out of 10 with a sexual appetite to match the best of them. Hence why I'm asking on here. If she was a 7 out of 10 with an average sex drive then I'd have made my own decision and got shot without giving it a second thought. Might try the crisps thing though, perhaps a troblerone for dessert, if she's lucky. Look on her face I expect would be priceless 😉

In which case you just need to work out whether it's costing you more than the obvious alternative ways to pay for what you're getting

I wish i hadn't read any of this.

Why don't you tell her that you'll make the sandwiches if she'll fill the Thermos?

What a wonderful relationship you must have, full of trust and communication, mature and giving.

I think you truly deserve each other. Do you realise you just gave your girlfriend a score, like a bike test?
She's probably doing the same on howipaintmynails.com you're a 5/10 quite fit but a bit cheap on dates...

Have we made Mumsnet yet?

LOL at this thread!

Read the first page about dating and who pays ... skip to the last page and there are pictures of crisps packets! errmmm What? 😕 😆

Now have to read the bits in between so it makes sense; although its STW so I'll probably be more confused after read the whole thing.

The big mistake was going to a hotel for a date. The best dates I've been on consist of mountain bike ride followed by a brew and cake 😛

Cougar - Moderator
Have we made Mumsnet yet?

Hora is probably over there right now.

Who pays for what on dates? No idea. Too long ago. I'd expect whoever asked who out on the date to front up, at least for the first few, then start splitting the costs, ish.

The Wife and I have had a joint account only since before we got married. Both our wages go in, everything gets paid and we spend what we consider to be acceptable. We'll run big spends past each other before we hit the Buy-It-Now button.

I've got no problem what she spends money on. Never have.

FWIW, I work full time, She is part time, I earn 5 times what she does. It's not a pi**ing contest.

vickypea - Member
The big mistake was going to a hotel for a date. The best dates I've been on consist of mountain bike ride followed by a brew and cake

Remind me where you live again.......

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The OP's current imagination of how the date goes;

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and how it could be, now she knows she's been rated:

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Maccy Ds gets a hand down your jeans and a quick jiggle

Well the Manageress at the local one here is mid-thirties and fit as f........

and is it your own hand or someone elses ??

andylaightscat - Member
and is it your own hand or someone elses ??

Well Emsz did mention Kleenex....

rebel12 - Member

No you're not getting pics I'm afraid but she's a 9 out of 10 with a sexual appetite to match the best of them. Hence why I'm asking on here.

Keep it simple IMO so you pay but then if you are near skint let her know, see if she will contribute. If she does not then get your money worth as much as you can ... because sooner or later she will go once you are dry. 😛

If she has such an old fashioned view of relationships that she expects the man to pay all the time then she must also accept the old fashioned view of rating women purely on their looks.

You can't have it both ways.

If she wants to be taken seriously she'll start paying for stuff....to be honest she sounds like a pain in the arse, get rid.

Bloody hell 4 pages and not one of you can get it right! If I'm dating a lass then she's paying, I'm worth it. It's that stay or at home an what repeats of Heartbeat, I've seen em all now.

I'm sure she's gagging to get home....

Still going?

At least I've picked up some good tips for my new single life, pay, don't pay, offer them crisps... anything else apart from another chapter from the Life and times of Cassa-Hora

You should pay until you're a couple, then share.

It's about making her feel special, not you being Martin Lewis.

You do sound like a right barrel of laughs OP. If it was a high bill either you are living beyond your means and care too much about it or she is not worth it. Stop counting the beans

You do sound like a right barrel of laughs OP. If it was a high bill either you are living beyond your means and care too much about it or she is not worth it. Stop counting the beans

Just flick them 😉

We cant really comment on your situation without knowing the history...

I am happy to pay for a date but it is nice if she at least offers to get a round in or make an effort. If she expects you to pay for absolutely everything then it feels like a chore and probably reflects how she expects to be treated in other ways too.

TBH for a really cute girl who I got on famously with she could have my wallet, my house and car. Who cares if she then rinsed me and moved on. Lifes too short to be bitter and worry about 'what if'.

go somewhere that doesn't cost anything

Date Hora.

TBH for a really cute girl who I got on famously with she could have my wallet, my house and car. Who cares if she then rinsed me and moved on. Lifes too short to be bitter and worry about 'what if'.

How to Objectify a woman in one easy sentence....

I think this Lads got the right idea.

I once dated a [s]woman[/s] bitch that earned a shed load more than me yet expected me to pay for everything literally 9 dates out of 10. It was like she was stipulating a clause in our contract as she was genuinely adamant that that was how it was to be.

We lasted about 3 months.

Can't help feel she's paid off her mortgage but exists in a vacuum of shallow-minded sha88ing and conceited self-joy.

Spam thread resurection - reported

Dammit, I was expecting an update!

I hate it when the spam gets deleted

I didn't even have time to copy down the (inevitable) link 🙁

I've only just seen this thread but I'm fairly certain that spacemonkey was seeing my ex-wife.

And for the record, she didn't pay off her mortgage. I did.

crikey I actually agree with Hora 😯 Whilst travelling around Peru a few years ago I met up with a beautiful Amazonian from Iquitos. We took off and travelled up the coast, across into the Andes and down to Lima over a couple weeks, staying in hotels and eating in restaurants every night. I paid for everything and didn't even question it. Buses, taxis, hotels, drinks, food the lot. She was beautiful we got on great, I was having the best time of my life. We're still friends and stay in touch. Happy days. 🙂