Hi, my sister sent the below into the guardian which was published in the family section today, just really quite proud and a bit sad so thought I'd share
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You were definitely quirky. Maybe even a tad eccentric. It wouldn't be at all unusual to come home to a landing decorated from floor to ceiling with hand-painted vines, a wall knocked down on a whim, or a meal fashioned out of the most unlikely combinations of whatever lay in the fridge.
You had a passion for erecting shelves and an obsession with labelling every belonging with its owner's name. Even now, 12 years after your premature death, I often come across a DIY tool with MJW proudly soldered on to it. Christmases would be (and are) incomplete without your adventurous treasure hunts that would inevitably end with us searching the hedges and lampposts of neighbouring streets, in the dark. I very much regret not carrying out our threat to mastermind an equally intricate hunt for you, while we still could.
I didn't appreciate your uniqueness while you were still with us but I certainly do now that you're not. Fond, fond memories of a father who afforded us such a delicate brand of guided freedom and would have enriched the lives of his beautiful grandchildren.
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a bit sad, i am in bits now mate.
ring yer sis an tell her she's great.
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I strive to be a dad that will live long In the memories of my children, and they then pass on some of the good and the bad of me to their very own babies!
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Commie, that's lovely. You're right to be proud. Dads are special!
CFH - that is a new low even for this place. You should go and take a long hard look at yourself.
Yeah I miss my dad too. Makes looking forward to it for myself hard to do. Especially with my mum just admitted to hospital last night on top of it 🙁
Good post, if my daughter can speak as highly of me in years to come I would be very proud.
CFH you utter tool
Edited. Post in haste, repent at leisure, etc....
What mamadirt said + 1
CFH, I get it. I'm the first to admit my grammar Is rubbish and I hope that is what your (now edited) comment related to.
It was, please accept my apologies.
No real need for an apology as it is a fair cop!
