Good point.
Fine illustration of why it fails - set the game up so you can't win it, then demand that you do. Bit like the way "god" works...
Morning folks. Too many posts last night for me to refer to individually, apart from this one:
I haven't sworn at you, insulted you personally or done anything else to spark such an extreme reaction as far as I can see.
You insulted BM's beliefs which is a pretty big insult to be honest mate. I'm offended and you weren't even directing it at me.
So anyway, Woppit, here's the thing:
Your world view appears to be based on rock solid evidence. You place the highest value on observation and verification of ideas. That's okay, that's a choice you've made. Other people however think of things differently. They feel that something else is more important - tradition, heritage, faith, spiritualism, whatever it is. Now that is their choice (albeit influenced by upbringing and others) and you have to respect that. You must NOT jump down their throats, attack them and make them feel like crap to score some kind of point. It is not how we should behave in a nice kind society.
My point is that your choice of value system is [b]in principle[/b] no different to anyone else's. You are rubbishing the religious viewpoint based on lack of evidence, but the value of evidence is inherent in your own viewpoint. So from the purely objective standpoint, you are both the same.
You demand evidence; but if you were really honestly interested in understanding the other side's point of view, you could have found out a lot more and NOT sparked a massive acrimonous argument by asking a lot more nicely (and without the sarcasm about smililes and whatnot).
Perhaps something like this: "Barnsleymitch, I see that your faith is very important to you. I'm really interested to try and understand what this means to you and how you reconcile the differences between Catholic doctrine and the scientific body".
If you can avoid really pissing people off, you tend to get a lot better responses from people.
You insulted BM's beliefs which is a pretty big insult to be honest mate
since beliefs are both abstract and necessarily unsupported conjecture, they cannot really [b]be[/b] insulted. Believe whatever suits you but don't expect anyone else to agree or not ridicule
You insulted BM's beliefs
You must NOT jump down their throats, attack them
Make your mind up.
As to the rest, what are you, my Mother?
If my style of dialectic upsets you, don't put yourself in danger of becoming upset, is my advice. Steer clear. Be a shame though, I love these STW barneys. Don't you?
simonfbarnes - Member
since beliefs are both abstract and necessarily unsupported conjecture, they cannot really be insulted. Believe whatever suits you but don't expect anyone else to agree or not ridicule
QFT
Believe whatever suits you but don't expect anyone else to agree or not ridicule
This is about playing nicely and not upsetting people. I fundamentally believe that not upsetting people is good, unless they have done something really bad; but to be honest Barnes you are not the most sensitive of people when it comes to emotions.. 🙂
Woppit - what do you mean make my mind up?
And yes, I do feel like a bloody schoolteacher on here sometimes. I find it hard to believe how small minded and base some people's thought processes can be when they act intelligent in other ways. I'm trying to drag you up to a higher level of critical thought here; and yes that is an insult!
Woppit - what do you mean make my mind up?
You can't have it both ways. 1: I'm attacking the belief, 2: I'm attacking the person.
Which is it? I maintain that it's the first condition that applies. As to whether or not it's ethical so to do, I refer you to simonfbarnes' excellent and illuminating note above.
I find it hard to believe how small minded and base some people's thought processes can be when they act intelligent in other ways. I'm trying to drag you up to a higher level of critical thought here; and yes that is an insult!
Pot. Kettle.
Just hope one day an extra terrestrial shows up and we can be done with all this religious nonsense for ever.
Thought Darwin might have helped, but seems that evolution can be explained away.
(Purely as a matter of human interest and not as part of any argument), is the amount of time you're devoting to this an indication that you're currently waiting to start something new, or is the "endgame" still playing out? I hope the former. 🙂
but to be honest Barnes you are not the most sensitive of people when it comes to emotions...
of course, but I think the responsibility lies with the believer not to get upset if their beliefs are questioned
On the original subject:
I think it's interesting that the "principles of (the alleged) Jesus" have resulted in an organisation that has always been open to infiltration by paedophiles, leading eventually to the current exposure and outrage.
Doesn't say much for the founder's competence. In my opinion.
Of course, this specific infiltration can be found in most (if not all) other religions, as far as I'm aware, so I think it's probably "hard-wired" into the religious virus's "DNA".
Any thoughts?
George Catlin said it best:
[url] http://www.rense.com/general69/obj.htm [/url]
the invisible man has a special list of ten things he does not want you to do. And if you do any of these ten things, he has a special place, full of fire and smoke and burning and torture and anguish, where he will send you to live and suffer and burn and choke and scream and cry forever and ever 'til the end of time!But He loves you. He loves you, and He needs money! He always needs money! He's all-powerful, all-perfect, all-knowing, and all-wise, somehow just can't handle money! Religion takes in billions of dollars, they pay no taxes, and they always need a little more. Now, you talk about a good bull**** story.
Just a short extract.
1: I'm attacking the belief, 2: I'm attacking the person.
They are one and the same thing in many people's eyes. Possibly mine too.
Pot. Kettle.
Did you miss the bit where I said I'm an atheist? I went through the thought processes that you're talking about when I was about 16. Then I realised a few things...
I used to want a good old argument with a religious person, I had all my arguments lined up about how I could conclusively prove that there was no God and it was all rubbish - cos I'm so clever and they are so gullible and stupid. Then I realised - what if I really truly won that argument? What if I stripped all the happy security and ineffable love from their lives? Would I feel big and clever crowing over the person whose life I'd just torn down? Just to try and make myself feel big and clever? Absolutely not! In fact, I'd feel bloody awful.
That's when I realised that faith is important to people and I did not have the right to try and take it away from them, or attack them because of it.
Now, if people try and impose their morals on me (or anyone else) then I'll react pretty badly. If I am not going to impose mine on anyone else they have to reciprocate and give me equal respect. And to be honest, the vast majority of them do. I do very much have a problem with certain churches teaching people not to use condoms, or that AIDs is divine punishment, or that to kill infidels is holy and just etc etc. That is different; that is imposing your beliefs on other people. Religion should be personal and it has to stay that way. And I've not met anyone who disagrees with that. Well, actually I suspect I might have, but it has not yet come up in conversation 🙂
Now, before you post that I am trying to impose my morals on you, I am not. I am trying to encourage you to think a little bit harder on how your beliefs and you as a person fit in with the rest of society. Now I appreciate that you may be a little further along that road than it seems, but to be frank your vehemence and vitriol really cloud your message. Which was another of my points.
Doesn't say much for the founder's competence. In my opinion.
well, I think Jesus is supposed to have been fully a man, and I'm not sure anyone could create an organisation that never faltered from its original intent (and Jesus didn't even try) - but also I wonder if anyone supposes god(s) to be so all knowing as to be able to predict every twist and turn of happenstance between creation and the last trump ? If such were the case - what of free will?
I used to want a good old argument with a religious person, I had all my arguments lined up about how I could conclusively prove that there was no God and it was all rubbish - cos I'm so clever and they are so gullible and stupid. Then I realised - what if I really truly won that argument? What if I stripped all the happy security and ineffable love from their lives? Would I feel big and clever crowing over the person whose life I'd just torn down? Just to try and make myself feel big and clever? Absolutely not! In fact, I'd feel bloody awful.That's when I realised that faith is important to people and I did not have the right to try and take it away from them, or attack them because of it.
+1, very well said/written molgrips.
of course, but I think the responsibility lies with the believer not to get upset if their beliefs are questioned
There's questioning, and there's attacking. This is the kind of subtle difference I tihnk you're likely to miss barnes 🙂
BTW I don't think Jesus 'founded' a religion. I think that was more likely to be Peter, Paul etc. As far as I can tell Jesus was Jewish, and just wanted everyone to be nice to each other. I think he existed, and he sounded like a pretty nice bloke. Son of God tho - personally I don't think so.
but also I wonder if anyone supposes god(s) to be so all knowing as to be able to predict every twist and turn of happenstance between creation and the last trump ? If such were the case - what of free will?
That's exactly the subject of many many major theological arguments over the millenia. People supposing that, if God pre-ordained everything then ANYthing they did was God's will and hence they could do whatever they felt like... etc etc. but then God gave free will to see what we would do with it.. it went on for a long time that one.
Try this as a starting point: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theological_determinism
If religion was benign I'd agree with you Molgrips, but it is most definitely not!
Christian Soldiers ring any bells?
Ah, well there you've hit upon a very important point.
Faith and doctrine are very very different things.
EDIT: Faith, doctrine and the establishment are very different things.
What if I stripped all the happy security and ineffable love from their lives?
[b]are[/b] there any such people ? Are they truly living or merely inhabiting a dreamworld ?
I used to want a good old argument with a religious person, I had all my arguments lined up about how I could conclusively prove that there was no God and it was all rubbish
Really? Conclusively? I think we should all be told, then.
hen I realised - what if I really truly won that argument? What if I stripped all the happy security and ineffable love from their lives?
What if? Are you saying it's better to go through life with a comforting illusion? Isn't it better to ask oneself why it is I think I need comforting?
It may well be comforting, but that doesn't make it true, and isn't the truth what religion claims to be the keeper of?
Just to try and make myself feel big and clever? Absolutely not! In fact, I'd feel bloody awful.
If that's why you're doing it, then that's what you deserve.
Now, if people try and impose their morals on me (or anyone else) then I'll react pretty badly. If I am not going to impose mine on anyone else they have to reciprocate and give me equal respect. And to be honest, the vast majority of them do. I do very much have a problem with certain churches teaching people not to use condoms, or that AIDs is divine punishment, or that to kill infidels is holy and just etc etc. That is different; that is imposing your beliefs on other people. Religion should be personal and it has to stay that way. And I've not met anyone who disagrees with that.
Me.
I am trying to encourage you to think a little bit harder on how your beliefs and you as a person fit in with the rest of society
Oh. I thought you were trying to drag me somewhere and insult me.
As far as the rest - it's about how my [s]beliefs[/s] understanding fits in with this forum discussion that is under the spotlight. Actually.
Any response to my attempt to get back to the subject re: religion/virus/DNA?
molgrips - Member
Ah, well there you've hit upon a very important point.Faith and doctrine are very very different things.
But surely if you class yourself (not [i]your[/i]self obviously) as a certain denomination then you subscribe to the doctrines of that church?
This is the kind of subtle difference I tihnk you're likely to miss barnes
yeah, sometimes I wonder how I manage to tie my shoelaces 🙂
it went on for a long time that one.
my point being that perhaps woppit was setting the bar so high even authentic gods might fail to reach it...
and he sounded like a pretty nice bloke.
Hm. I think he comes across as a masochistric, self-harming, self-loathing lunatic who has read a bit of old testament gibberish and thinks it's about him.
Kind of perverted, in a way. Oh. I wonder if there's a link there...
With regard to what he "taught" - see my reply earlier on the worthlessness of his "ideas".
No offense to you personally, etc...
Edit: And probably a homosexual, although of course there's nothing wrong with that, except in the eyes of his inheritors...
Really? Conclusively? I think we should all be told, then.
I said I [i]used to think[/i] that...
Are you saying it's better to go through life with a comforting illusion?
For some, yes, absolutely. It depends what you value in life. To you (and me), that is absolutely unconscionable. To others, it's perfect. Just because you value truth above all else doesn't mean that everyone else does, or should. We all need to find what works for ourselves.
Of course, this specific infiltration can be found in most (if not all) other religions, as far as I'm aware, so I think it's probably "hard-wired" into the religious virus's "DNA".
I think that religions vary so massively that what you say is unlikely.
Judaism: Based on a few tribes, canonized by scholars and evangelists
Christianity: Started as an individualist cult, taken over by a shadowy establishment
Bhuddism: Started as a cult above religion, but thrown open, without (to my knowledge) a controlling group
Islam: another individualist cult
Hindu: a culturual religion, controlled by social structure (I think, not too sure)
The Catholic church as an organisation is run the way it is run - seems quite different to a lot of other religions. Don't forget that it's only one part of Christianity. Protestantism is a splinter from it, sure, but there's also Russian/Greek orthodox churches which are as old, as are the one in Ethiopia (forget its name) then there are Coptics and all sorts, lots of which go way way back possibly even before Catholicism.
The Catholic church is pretty big, but I don't think it it at all typical.
Hm. I think he comes across as a masochistric, self-harming, self-loathing lunatic who has read a bit of old testament gibberish and thinks it's about him.
I think that the things people SAID that he said (about being the son of God etc) he didn't actually say. My feeling is that he was a decent chap whose popularity was heavily manipulated by others.
I said I used to think that...
There's hope for you yet, then.
To others, it's perfect. Just because you value truth above all else doesn't mean that everyone else does, or should.
Thankyou for agreeing with me that a religious person is living a lie. If coming up against an argument that points this out is so upsetting that it causes a personality implosion, well - you might want to think about the uselessness of the comforter you've been living with. That might be comforting.
I think that religions vary so massively that what you say is unlikely
In my opinion, from what I've seen and read, it seems to me that all religions are open to infiltration by paedophiles. Their uncritical position of the offence being a matter between the offender and whatever magical being they worship, is responsible for the situation.
My feeling is that he was a decent chap whose popularity was heavily manipulated by others.
At least a century after his death
Your world view appears to be based on rock solid evidence.
But his apparent reliance on rock solid evidence goes out of the window when it comes to the supposed qualities of ridiculously expensive speaker cable. Despite it being unable to be proven in double blind tests, he just [i]knows[/i] that they are better.
Funnily enough I have recently come to think that perhaps many people could benefit from religion, despite being a pretty firm atheist (or at least agnostic but leaning so far towards atheism as to make it pretty much indistinguishable).
Some of the core christian values (often opposite to the values displayed by church institutions) I was brought up with: tolerance and respect for others, forgiveness, compassion, anti-materialism, truthfullness, etc etc - seem to be pretty lacking in a lot of people, as often displayed on this forum.
I just wish people could embrace all that stuff without all the superstitious nonsense, but if they can't then maybe religion does have a role to play.
I think that the things people SAID that he said (about being the son of God etc) he didn't actually say.
Oh. So what did he actually say, then? And how do you know?
Given that the earliest known record of this story was written down some 70 years after the events it claims to portray and is simple hearsay, the judgement is about a largely - if not completely - fictional character anyway.
to the supposed qualities of ridiculously expensive speaker cable. Despite it being unable to be proven in double blind tests, he just knows that they are better.
"he" - I AM in the room, by the way and my name is Woppit. The above is not true.
I never said that I just [i]knew[/i] there was a difference between Hifi cables, I said I could hear it. I also said that I was perfectly happy to take on board the idea that this was a subjective phenomenon.
Thankyou for being the first today to try and support your argument by directly misquoting me. Why DO you do that? (I almost called you a name there, but managed to restrain myself, being as how I'm not being "aggressive" today).
tolerance and respect for others, forgiveness, compassion, anti-materialism, truthfullness,
These are not "christian" values. Evidence - they are present in many cultures past and present who are not remotely "christian". Must do better.
They are christian values, just not exclusively christian. Obviously, with regard to the OP not all christians follow them!
Must do better
Quotes like the above show your(childish)aggression perfectly.
[i]I never said that I just knew there was a difference between Hifi cables, I said I could hear it. I also said that I was perfectly happy to take on board the idea that this was a subjective phenomenon.[/i]
Based on the fact that you believe that you can hear a difference, and presumably base your purchasing choices on this belief, would you accept that other people may able to hear or sense god, and make their choices based on that equally valid personal experience?
Mr Woppit, why are you so bothered about this? Haven't you got work to do or something?
Based on the fact that you believe that you can hear a difference, and presumably base your purchasing choices on this belief, would you accept that other people may able to hear or sense god, and make their choices based on that equally valid personal experience?
Bit of a spurious comparison.
Quotes like the above show your(childish)aggression perfectly.
Dear me.
I think what you are trying to say is that these are values that are held by christians. That they are not exclusively christian, which is what I read grum's post to mean.
Did grum not mean that? In that case , he obviously doesn't need to do better.
Except with his own "aggression" (first para. when talking about me). And tendency to lie about what I said on an unrelated subject. Which I note leggy has not castigated HIM for. Being partial and evidently prone to attacking me, like...
Terry Wrist - MemberMr Woppit, why are you so bothered about this? Haven't you got work to do or something?
Hey Terry. No, I am at present, still not with meaningfull employment, sad to say. I'm bothering with it because I find these tussles interesting and I've got the spare time to engage...
Based on the fact that you believe that you can hear a difference, and presumably base your purchasing choices on this belief, would you accept that other people may able to hear or sense god, and make their choices based on that equally valid personal experience?
Interesting point. I'll have to think about it.
[i]Bit of a spurious comparison.[/i]
Why? Both are belief based on personal experience, rather than externally verifiable evidence.
One is a life choice that affects a person's everyday choices.
The other is a freakin speaker lead.
I thought about it.
In the Hifi cable scenario: both myself and the (postulated) person who hear different things from each other, both agree that a sound is being generated that can be heard and measured.
In the god scenario, there is no such agreement. My conclusion is that the claimant for an invisible presence is either arguing from faith (ie: they can't sense a god either, but maintain it's existence without evidence) or they are having some sort of hallucination.
Just done the clicky thing on the thread "Priest child abuse - outrageous..."
Second time I've laughed out loud today.
Sorry, I know it's horrible and tragic and all that, but come on.
Fnar, fnar.
I am at present, still not with meaningfull employmen
Ah right, sorry, not trying to have a dig. You seem to be putting a lot of effort into arguing. If you don't mind me asking, why does religion seem to wind you up so much? Is it something you really hate, or is it just an interesting argument? Again, not trying to wind you up, just wondered?
Personally there's lots of stuff associated with religion that is pretty offensive to me. Equally with non-religious groups. So may be it's just bloody people in groups.
Ah right, sorry, not trying to have a dig.
Not at all. I didn't take it that way.
You seem to be putting a lot of effort into arguing. If you don't mind me asking, why does religion seem to wind you up so much? Is it something you really hate, or is it just an interesting argument?
Religion is filth, the gains of the enlightenment and human dignity is under threat from it on all fronts. I do hate it, but it's also an extremely interesting argument. The most important subject for argument of our time, in my opinion.
So may be it's just bloody people in groups.
😆 You may be right. Perhaps the argument about god/religion is just the one around which we humans have decided to re-engage in our periodic halfway split.
"The more people that are gathered together, the less the IQ value". ([i]ibid[/i])
"I wouldn't belong to any club that would have me as a member". Groucho Marx.
Mr Woppit, are you really truly convinced by your argument there? 😉
At the end of the day both you and those of religious persuasion have personal belief without external evidence (i.e faith). The fact that both you and I can agree that the sound exists is irrelevant. I'm sure we can also both agree that we can hear our own voice in our head. The extra sound that you can hear in music, would appear to be logically no different from the quiet voice of god that others experience, in that neither are verifiable by an evidence based metric.
The question is religon good or bad or if it's followers are better people because of it is all irrelevant. The main question is, is the premise that religion is based upon true or false.
I cannot take anyone who truly belives that there is a supreme being seriously because that is patently bullshit.
The rest of it is all just semantics, dogma and politics really.