2011 was a total feckless train crash of a year for me and after loads of huge change in my life I met a girl who IMHO is leagues above me. Once things progressed to the bed I detected her nervousness (she's just come out of a 20year faithful marriage) and it made me nervous and well as you can guess it all went pear shaped.
Never really had a problem but we're now a total disaster due to us both being stressed in the situation. We've both talked, stroked, all sorts but we can't relax.. So I thought I'd go to doctors who ran some tests and said I was suffering from 'Performance Anxiety' and didn't recommend any drugs but said he'd offer me some viagra just to help re-establish some confidence, but I needed therapy of the phycological sort.
We're both gong away for a dirty weekend and i'm gutted I feel like this, I'm overweight which doesn't help but never had the problem before, my blood pressure is spot on etc and don't take any medication.
I know some will laugh at this, some will empathise but I've got no shame in admitting to it.
I'm itching to try the little blue pill but the side effects don't look pleasant.
discuss/take the piss at will.......
), or even second or third, but if it can sort things out it has to be worth a shot. As you say, it would be just to get you over the initial nervousness.
