Don't mean to teach to suck eggs btw, was only trying to help.
Not kidding in the slightest about tyre pressure. I vary between 11 and 12 stone. Anything over 30psi will lose you tons of grip, and lower than that will not fold or come off the tyre until you get down to silly-low pressure.
Not kidding about the negative mind either – you might currently be seeking out the the absence of grip, rather than looking for the positive, it seems to me. The consequent negative feedback will fulfill your prediction about lack of grip. Of course there is a limit, but the limit tends to be wherever you believe it to be, which is why some people go faster than others. As one get near the edge of the belief one tends to start getting less fluid, looking at the ground more (God knows why, it isn't going anywhere) and doing small steering corrections which actually break grip, rather than increase it.
Of course it may be that none of this applies to you, in which case I refer you to mine and others' recommendations of Specialized Eskar or Purgatory tyres, which are also good value.