Why are they such a bloody nightmare
What started out as a small registry office (have maintained that thus far) is turning into a nightmare trying to keep it small. We don't particularly want anything from our day other than to be married and have a marriage. In the space of 24hrs I've had to:
1-give invitations to immediate family because they want a pretty invitation. WTF??
2-reaffirm my reason for not wanting 100 people staring at me when I take my nuptials
3-defend our reasons for having registry office and not a hotel
4-defend our not having wedding cars/horse drawn carriage
5-defend a very close friend who is now able to attend when originally we thought they couldn't but another friend who doesn't like them has made it clear she will probably be looking for a fight.
6-try to explain the difference between 'wedding' hair and wanting a nice natural style and being frowned at for being willing to spend £100 to get what I want
7-justify my not being in the slightest bit bothered by people bring their children in the evening.
8-I could go on
I'm so disappointed at this moment in time,

