Just go with the flow not knowing and expecting for her to be the one.
If you’re content with each other, and the spark between you remains without you both having to force it. Enjoy it and feel lucky to have found each other.
If along the journey of life together, you have doubts to whether you wish to spend a life time with her, it’s best to get out whilst you easily can.
There’s no true way IMHO of telling if they are the right one straight away. Yes there’s such a thing as love at first sight, but love doesn’t always last forever.
The trick is to let it run it’s course and have the power to jump ship at the first sign of high seas.
Perhaps i’m just bitter though from a life time wasted on not the right ones. Or not keeping the right ones when i had them.
Sharki (confused)