Its an internet forum- why do you folk take its soo bloody seriously? Beyond me.
Why is the fact that it is an internet forum any excuse for not respecting the people you are addressing in the same way you would if you were face to face? Or even more accurately face to face with the person you are addressing with a microphone transmitting to the public at large?
That's what we are all doing on here. We are communicating to the rest of the readers as much as we are addressing any group or individual. The same levels of respect and consideration of thoughts and opinions are required. The fact you can't see your audience is not an excuse. The fact this is an internet forum is not an excuse to behave in a way you would not otherwise do. That philosophy is enshrined in the forum rules and guidelines, which I'm currently updating. Soon they will become an agreement that everyone who uses this site must opt in to before they can access this forum or any other interactive part of the site.
And on that note it's probably a good opportunity to highlight one particular rule…
"No posts, including links to other sites that are deemed to be of a sexual or distasteful nature, incite racial or sexist behaviour or are in any way discriminatory and/or offensive towards individuals or minority groups."
This is in response to the increase of sexist and generally misogynistic posts that have been on the increase lately. The moderators have been told to look out closely for such posts and deal with them.