I’ve used pegs in the past. Push the tread down and peg the sidewall so it pinches the tyre beads wider apart. Works a treat. I use 16 pegs per side so that’s one per spoke. Just watch out for flying pegs when it starts to inflate.
As for bead lube, I just dunk a bar of soap in a bucket of water and rub the wet bar around the bead.
Worth going back to basics though. Have you got the rim strip sat evenly between the rim walls? Have you removed the valve core? Have you tapped the tyre all the way around? I also found it helps to inflate the tyre off the ground, hang it up somewhere. It doesn’t seal well if the weight of the wheel is compressing the bottom of the tyre.