Amongst our circle of friends there is a woman ( call her G) who has behaved badly when very drunk at two recent parties. The most recent incident she was screaming "fat lazy slut" at another member ( call her S)of our circle for 1/2 an hour. she claims to have no memory of this ( but I don't believe her) If that incident had occurred in my house she would have been thrown out of the house.
The dilemma is a third friend (I)is leaving the country and G is hosting a party for her. S will not be invited. I had already decided that G would not be welcome in my house again ( one of the incidents happened in my house) G has not apologised for either of the incidents
The party G is throwing will have a lot of my friends at and will be a lot of fun.
Do I go or not? I am very fond of I in whos honour the party is being held