Getting to the stage where me and the missus would need to have kids reasonably soon if we're going to do it, but we just don't feel any great burning desire to. Mrs grum feels similar btw.
I guess it sounds selfish but having spent much of my teens-20s being a bit of a waster, there are so many things I'd like to do I just feel will never happen if we have kids, and I'm quite happy with my life as it is generally. We don't earn huge amounts either and mates who earn more but have kids seem to struggle at times. I also have CFS, though I'm a lot better now than I was, everyone says how knackering it is being a parent.
The only time I ever really have pangs of broodiness is seeing little kids on skis - so cute!
I just wonder if I/we might regret it later in life if we don't do it. Any thoughts?