If you don't want/need durability, then yes, revs/lazers + alu nips best combo.

As an aside… I've found lazers to be far more durable than revs, despite there being no good reason for this to be the case.

I don't see any point in using strong spokes with fragile nipples.

I didn't use CX-Rays because they were strong, I used them because they were light, their strength was just a byproduct. Revolutions are the same weight, and I'm not heavy/don't ride like an oaf, so they're also strong enough for my usage on a race wheelset.

For any every day wheelset I'd rather have something that built into a stiffer wheel, whilst costing far less, and spend the money elsewhere, as I said, repeatedly. Again, that's in my opinion, and yours is clearly different.