If you look at the fact the Blood is a single pivot, with the main pivot roughly inline with where a “normal” 32T chainring is placed, the fact you’ve got a 36T up front might not be helping with the pedal bob. Also, as you say, you’re putting quite a lot of torque through the pedals to climb with a 36/36 bottom gear, rather than sitting and winching.
Not ridden a Blood, though I’d love to, but it was never designed to be an efficient climber, more a massively fun short/mid travel bike on the descents.
But also, at your weight, putting that much pressure into the shock does make it sound like it needs a service. Might also be worth investigating getting the High Volume can swapped for a lower volume can too, as this would help make it more progressive, and I noticed a lot of Blood’s shipped with a lower volume can anyway.