BTW – Our identical consumption is for the bars AND the box (160l jobbie) on permanently to lug baby things around.
Well either your car's computer is wrong, your car had rubbish aerodynamics to begin with, or your driving style has changed to be a bit more smooth as if all other things are equal that simply should not be possible. To be honest I'd suspect the latter as your driving will almost certainly have changed as a result of having kids.
Driving style makes a huge difference. A few months ago I had a long drive with bikes on the roof which normally seriously compromises the fuel economy. The route I ended up taking was pretty heavy but flowing traffic which reduced my speed to 50-60mph. My mpg was much higher as a result.