so he believed what his kid tells him and you didn’t believe yours and as a result you now don’t talk? Sounds like you were both wrong, really?
Very tricky, believing kids… Take on board what they say, but seek other viewpoints.
Our son has had a number of problems with bullying, including a concussive head bang which saw him in A&E. But, the most difficult to deal with was a “spat” between him and a very good friends son. Our son maintained he was being psychologically bullied, rather than physical. We believed him in a qualified manner, I think our friends believed their son in absolute terms. All sorts of problems when school stepped in to resolve. Both boys were accusing each other of doing the same thing. Very bad feeling between the adults, when there really wasn’t any need. I Think parents evening might have been influential on both sets of parents. Our son’s teachers comments on his behaviour, attitude, achievements, team working etc were entirely consistent with what he was telling us. Our friends, on the other hand, we’re to be seen doing a face palm….
So, I think (very much hope) our son was vindicated as telling the truth, but still stand by my approach of taking a qualified view.