If you want to put a more positive slant on it, Aleigh; a ‘Cougar’ is a sexy woman who has still got it, and can attract younger men. Much to the chagrin of men (and maybe other women) her own age.
I’d say you’re more a Puma meself… 😉
And the male equivalent is an ordinary bloke, but oh look; a not so flattering name for a women.
Indeed. See Cougar, Puma, MILF, slut, slapper slag, whore, etc, etc.
It’s all to do with men thinking they are the only ones allowed to wield sexual power. Which is, quite frankly, hairy and dangly, and vulnerable to violent attack…