i found xtr shifters made the biggest difference when I went 'all the way' last year, super smooth. Currently have an xtr front mech on my cotic and a deore one on my Rocky Mountain, can't tell the difference to be honest.
Need and want are 2 very different things, but the xtr stuff does seem to work well, funded out of a bigger than anticipated bonus. Glad I got it before the prices went stupid, certainly wouldn't look past XT at current prices
Bodger – had a ceramic hope BB on the go for about a year, its been through some rather horrific conditions (La Ruta, Transportugal, Kielder 100 and a LOT of miles in between) and is still running sweet.