lke most here we had a wonderful christmas at towers scraprider, so apart from gracing mrs scraprider with my precense , how can i say thanks for cooking , me trying to help etc, i know, a small token, a thank you card and some flowers , yes job done,so whats the problem , all im getting now is, "what you after ,no whatever it is" , i just dont get it , all i wanted to do was say thanks dear!!!!

That's sad :o(

Not a good time to mention buying another bike then 🙄

Get a babysitter(if you have sprogs) and take her out for a quiet drink.
(Not on NY's eve!!!)
Oh, and tell her! 8)

MrFC better bloody well see this thread!!!!!!!!!! 😈

8)

Clue is in the title… PMT.

I'd do something to justify her worst suspicions, but I'm a petty and emotionally destructive person, so don't listen to me. 😀

Did you not read the small print before you said "i do"?

I think it was a hint that she might prefer something shiny for her bike rather than a 'thank you' card 😉

don't say thank you often enough?

From my experience you have made the fatal mistake of alluding that cooking etc is her job

Bit like saying shall I help you out with the cleaning

So what are you after?

get a new one for 2010

Was all the spelling correct on the card? 😉

tell her you're horny.

Flowers before Christmas look like a loving gesture, showing thoughtfulness and anticipation at the happy days to come.

🙂

very sad 🙁

Tell her to f*** o** you have been helpful! Or buy 3k bike…….

Tell her that you have been seeing a male work colleague and walk straight out of the door. Leave it an hour then go back and say that you were only joking.

DISCLAIMER- this could go badly wrong.

Good move, keep her off balance. Normal tomorrow and then considerate the day after. She should crack after 2 weeks and you'll possibly have made a rod for your own back.

I'm 52 and I wish I could point you at some wisdom that would give you hope……………….but all I can manage is Henry Westons Vintage Cider.
Two pints………..it won't matter.

Next time you cook.

🙂