Have finally been persuaded by friends to go on a date, after holding firm for ages (they bizarely seem to think that sharing my life with a dog, 4 bikes and a load of climbing kit isn’t sufficient ..)
But I’ve never done ‘dating’ (last time I was single in the dim and distant past it was more just a case of evolving friendships), and my toes are curling at the mere thought of it. Which is a shame, cos he seems like a nice chap, and I have a feeling that I’m going to do this wrong 🙁
He asked what I fancied doing, so I suggested heading up one of the mountains in Snowdonia. Which I’d much prefer as then I can pretend I’m just meeting a friend and it doesn’t have anything to do with all that dating malarky. But it is December, and the weather will be pants, so I’ll be wearing full waterproofs and a woolly hat – practical, but maybe not conveying the right ‘look’!
So, those of you who have more familiarity with the world of dating than me, but are also into ‘outdoor stuff’ – am I doing this completely wrong? Is just being yourself the right thing to do?
PS – there is a very high chance that I’ll just run a mile and avoid the whole situation …