Wake up and realise that she is responsible for her own life and happiness, and that no man from A-Z is going to sort that out for her ?
Another vote for the cynical-al view.
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1 Woman, 3 men. Personal Problem de jour.
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Posted 2 years ago #
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Her morals are fine. B was an aberration from what she's said - totally unexpected.
She’s cheated on her partner of over ten years…with a married man. Given that you describe the affair as ‘intensive’ and that she’s considering moving to his country to be his bit on the side on a more fulltime basis (possibly with the view of hoping he’ll leave his wife), it doesn’t sound like it was a one-off or a mistake she regrets. I’d hardly describe her morals as ‘fine’.
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Mrs Toast is right, all a bit handy whan she wants it, stay clear is my advice.
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Ditch A and be single for a while until she knows what she wants. If that means they have to sell the flat and A gets jumped on by his creditors, too bad, her equity should be secure. Simples.
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Girl G. 30+, pretty, intelligent.
Well Hellllooo.
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It would be good to put the solution in some kind of mathematical formula. Any one good at math expresions?
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It would be good to put the solution in some kind of mathematical formula. Any one good at math expresions?
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Women over 30;
Single, Sane, Attractive
Pick two.
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Men over 30:
FatGenerously proportioned*, Bald, BoringPick three.
* sorry ernie/ton, a brief lapse there
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Women over 30;
Single, Sane, Attractive
Pick two.
tea/keyboard.
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Reading this, Thank God I am in a stable relationship, where my other half works to support me while I try to make it big at online poker.And only takes the odd weekend in France with her Mum. Wish that dork in the anorak would stop coming round, mind.
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Women over 30;
Single, Sane, Attractive
Pick two.
Ok, I'll have two then
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Men over 30:
Fat Generously proportioned*, Bald, Boring
Pick three.
I've been trying to think of this for a while, I came up with;
"Solvent, attractive, single
pick two."
and I don't know any blokes over 30 who meet all 3 criteria...
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Option A: If she doesn’t think the relationship is worth saving (via counselling or whatever) she should ditch him.
Option B: Is married. Unless she wants to be a morally questionable trollop, she should ditch him. End of. Even from a more pragmatic point of view, if he’s cheating on his wife with her, he’s probably got other totty all over the shop. Even if he left his wife for her, he’ll probably cheat on her once he gets bored.
Option C: She doesn’t fancy him, and moving in with him would be unfair on him, and basically prostituting herself. OK, maybe not that unfair on him, if he’s OK knowing that she’s imagining that she’s elsewhere. If she’s cheated on her long-term bloke with a married man, I doubt that starting a relationship with a bloke she doesn’t fancy is likely to be a long and faithful one.
In short, she should WTFU, stop sleeping around behind her bloke’s back, particularly with married men – if she’s unhappy with the relationship, she should end it, for both their sakes. She sounds like she needs some time being single to figure out what she actually wants from life, instead of basing her emotional and financial wellbeing around a bunch of unsuitable men.
Absolutly bang on! got it in one!print this off and give it to her.
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although I come out as
"Married, poor, aesthetically challenged
Pick three"
so I've no idea why my sane attractive wife is still with me.
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Women over 30;
Single, Sane, Attractive
Pick two.
this is totally bang on as well!!
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so I've no idea why my sane attractive wife is still with me.
Is she hiding her insanity really well?
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possibly, I can't afford to find out though, the kids leech me of every last penny.
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spend a good week and a half convincing C that she really is in love with him but that she needs the others out of the way first, then fill him with amphetamine and buckfast, hand him a semi automatic weapon and drive him to the apartment, retire to a safe distance and enjoy the fireworks!
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Is it just me who thinks candidate C is material ripe for axe murdering stalker?
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Funnily enough, I wonder about that one too. Not that I've met the guy, but it may have the potential to all go haywire.
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Sounds to me like G is in a bit of a spot.
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She's allowing other people's actions s to define her own sense of direction/life/happiness/worth.
She needs to decide what she wants rather than what these men want.
Once the decision is made then do just it!Posted 2 years ago # -
He is a lawyer, but unemployed.
Which particular barrel would sir like to be bottom of?
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barnsleymitch -
Whilst reading the OP, I couldnt help thinking of Simon Bates and 'our tune'.
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Buy her a mountain bike for Christmas...
New sport, new outlook on life, new people to meet!!
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Oops - double post. Edit.
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I think she could play hard to get.
Move out, make no contact and see if any of the three gets in touch. If he doesn't, she's got her answer. If he does, she can set her own terms.
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