Enjoyed a great day at a certain South West trail centre with the lads yesterday but it was soured by an awkward moment on the way home. I fell asleep in the passanger seat of my mates car, and was awoken when I felt someone's hand on my lap. Startled I slapped his hand away, but he went on to confess how he really felt about me. I've known him since Uni (10 years ago) and was a bit worried back then about his habit of seemingly following me everywhere I went. What should I do? He was a good mate, if a little 'quirky' but now!!? He does also use this forum, so your advice may also reach him.
Ha ha… well you can either go with the flow, or get upsett… if you still want him as a mate you have to say so, if you want something more, then its your choice.
Do you have feelings for him? If so- go out for a drink and a talk. If you definitely don't – also tell him that you are flattered but dont want to earn your male brown wings.
Yeah, I'm definitely not interested (sorry mate if you read this). Wish I could've kept it a bit more secret, but couldn't help tell the mrs when I got home, or some other mates down the pub last night. There's a bit of widespread shock at the moment as he's been with his GF for 4-5 years and seems(ed) really happy.
Talk to him in person. Jesus, give him some bloody respect. I've known about one of my great mates being gay since 1994. I even shared a student house with him (although he locked his bedroom door and I never did). He never hit on me and if he had I would have said not my thing. Its not the end of the world- take it as a compliment.
Has to be a troll… lets face it when was the last time that a red blooded male was seated next to an old female friend & grabbed her boobs etc as a come on ….
He just placed his hand on my knee, much like you would to your own partner on a long motorway journey, I think it was how startled I was that prompted him to come out with it all. THe advice on here has been a lot more constructive than my (less metro-sexual) mates advice, so thanks.
Just one question though, if he wasn;t just winding me up, what should I do about his Mrs? Surely she has a right to know what her BF really wants?
In your dreams Guido the Pae**. Thanks for going on my PC whilst I get the coffees in! Your comments are less helpful than thy were at the started. Just out of interest….. what line would you guys choose for max chances with his bird, bearing in mind what I've got to tell her?