Right, so saying to a “man” wearing a skirt/dress/makeup/whstever “So what are you? A transvestite or transexual?” is like saying to a black person “So where are you really from?” It’s unnecessary, offensive and de humanising. It’s a person, a human being just trying to get through the day as anonymously as possible. Note a woman can’t be a transvestite. Most women wear trousers, hoodies, t-shirts etc. It’s a term designed to mock “men” who don’t confirm to gender stereotypes.
@edukator sorry if I upset your delicate sensitivities. My partner is a trans women and yet again she has come home in tears after a day of abuse and catcalls just because it’s a sunny day and she went out in a skirt. “oh, freak how many gold medals are you going to steal off the real women” was a particular highlight.
Being trans might in theory be as protected a characteristic as race, colour or sexualality, but the reality is it’s the joke one. The one that if you report abuse you get “well pal, what did you expect going out in a dress”.
Tories and Labour are as bad as each other on this. I don’t like the SNP, but at least they tried. They did it badly and the battle with the feminists (which I totally understand} was totally unnecessary, but at least they tried to make life a tiny bit better.
And breathe… It’s been a very trying and upsetting day. Again. 🙁