Most cars have at least 50kg for noseweight, and if you have high mount rack mounted on the boot/rear doors, that isn’t on the towbar anyway so just comes off the main vehicle payload
depends a bit on why the nose limit is there. if its because they’re worried about the towbar snapping off, you’re correct. if on the other hand its due to the dynamics of the vehicle, then hanging bikes out the back regardless of the fixing methodology should count towards it.
Having seen how towbars are attached to cars/vans, I very much doubt anyone is worried about them snapping off with 100kg of load.
I seem to recall struggling for traction on a moderate slope with just one Susser on the back.
whilst the overall load will make it harder for a fwd vehical to keep traction, having the weight of the bike hanging off the back will make almost no difference. In that scenario the rear axle is your pivot point, so you’re talking about maybe 50kg (bike + rack) acting on a lever of maybe 1m long, compared to 500kg of engine acting on a lever thats 3m long.
It was probably just slippery that day